Twice in a row now.  What is going on with cancellations on the one hand and this on the other?

Before I'm crucified for not naming names and using an alias, none, including the two most recent, were in Chicago.  In the past, I haven't reported NCNS.  The dilemma, and I have whined about this before, giving out RS2K info is just too bloody much data if a girl wants to "fight back."  It would take all of about two seconds to figure out who I am.  

So, if you're a chickenshit on this issue (as I am), what's the next best thing?  Post and offer to PM

I am assuming you are talking about a provider doing this to you? If you have not heard from them after a length of time,a pm from others is a discreet and reasonable manner in dealing with these girls. I am sorry to hear that. I was involved in a fender bender that made me miss an appointment,but I informed my date right away. Is it possible there was any reason,it just seems like such a bad business practice? XOPeyton24kt

The problem with posting and offering to PM is that you may not know who is contacting you.  It can be someone with a legitimate inquiry, the escort's white knight (self-proclaimed or assigned) or the escort's alias.  The latter two can cause you as much trouble as posting publicly, especially if the lady in question has a good reputation on the board (and by good reputation I mean someone who is never doubted no matter what).  I have a similar problem as yours.  It's very important to provide verification information, but my name and picture are on my company's website and I can't risk angering someone who, like you say, wants to fight back.  In the past I've only posted about an NC/NS in response to someone else's post and I've kept the details vague and it was long after the skipped appointment.  I've back-channeled people I trust, but that's it.  I know I'm not helping the board when I hold back information, but I have to look out for myself first.

I guess what I'm saying is there's not much you can do without risking a problem in your non-hobby life.  The only thing you can do is find someone who wants to take your money, there are plenty of options.  Sorry I can't help more and sorry you were blown off.  If it helps, this happens to every client and provider and it's just part of the hobby.

Just because a Provider cancels on you, just call on another one. There are plenty of Providers that would like to accommodate you. Oh and about those two cancellations you got, don't call on them ever again. Even if they call you, don't call them back. It may take some time, but you'll find a Provider that you can see on a regular basis. I did.