I have to ask, why is it so hard to keep guys on the phone long enough to make a solid appointment when they called me? alot of girls I know say the same. in Chicago we HAVE to screen, its crazy so many men dont want to be botherd to see a decent lady. I realize with wives, kids etc its hard, but I cannot get ready in 10 min! its like a drive thru groupon thing...I dont ever remember so much impatience...nothing happens that fast! you cant even get thru the line anywhere that fast.....isnt it worth it to take a bit more time? Once you get here I never rush...isnt it only right to take time look for a good lady and carve out the time? ...I ask for 1 hour notice incall and 2 hours outcall and 24 for travel is that totally impossible? I just want the nice clients that have a desire to really relax...... not just get off....get out. No one gives a deposit either even when its hours away......also alot of guys call and automatically chop my rate to 50% or even an insulting 30% ! I never understand the 10,15,20 min requests its crazy I say everywhere that I am only 1 hour or more. I feel like NO ONE READS the ad or my website, even just to notice what day I arrive, where I am or what time increments I offer. If a woman says she is GFE why would anyone ask for 15 min?! what can I do for you in 15 min? maybe make you a drink and start the shower...
There's nothing unreasonable about any of your requests. You're just fielding calls from guys who do no screening, they see, they immediately want, no brain work going on there at all. I can't say if any of the regulars here are behaving like this but I highly doubt it. Most of us screen as much as you do. This sounds a lot like newbie behavior. I was a newbie once and I remember doing stupid stuff like this but only a couple of times before I learned my lesson after being hung up on. How rude, LOL...
In the past 3 - 4 years many seasoned TER men have sunk to the level of street mongers. With the bad economy and the influx of CL and BP girls and guys TER has become CL 2.0 in the mentality of many (not all) of the men on here.
In my experience a lot of men who used to be good clients (respectful of time, rates, screening, etc) have gotten to be pushy, self-entitled cheap a-holes. Men I used to enjoy seeing are now on my personal DNS list since they assume because of the economy they call the shots.
I don't *need* the $$, I *want* the $$ - big difference. Needing it means desperate, wanting it means I pick and choose. And I choose fewer and fewer men off this board these days. Oddly I have little trouble with newbies, but the seasoned men are becoming a pain.
Hopefully, I've never seen you because I sure wouldn't want to be part of your jaded memories. No argument that some guys are a-holes but if this is really what you think of us, why bother posting here?
Lesson on the economy my dear. You want our money, you don't need it, you want it. Good to hear you're in excellent financial shape but try considering that some of us were in better financial shape before the economy tanked. The proper thing for us to do is hobby less or quit, not take advantage of desperate providers so in this respect, you're correct. The way you said it is insulting to those of us who cut back the proper way - by controlling our little heads. When a provider gets so jaded, it's probably time to quit. At least on this board...
Where on earth did you get the impression that these men I speak of are cutting back the 'right' way? These are the guys that want to see as many escorts as they can and still get discounts.
I am not jaded and I don't post here any longer looking for clients. I love how whenever a woman voices a legitimate concern she is labled jaded by you guys.
Read my reply above. I said I don't want to stoop to insulting and name calling. How is that jaded?
You make a lot of assumptions and most are wrong. I am insulting no one. These men are insulting me and other escorts.
and I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one. You don't like us, you don't advertise here, so why use an alias? The only reason I can think of is you're afraid you'll piss off the guys but if you don't like us and don't see us, why does it matter? Aliases are used for posting remarks for which you don't want to take ownership.
But hey, point taken and I'm sorry about the jaded remark and I'm really sorry that some of us are assholes who insult you. We should be better than that.
I've been taking all the proper steps to see a provider. RS2K, respectful e-mails, etc, etc. I'm trying to play by the rules. The rules haven't worked out for me thus far. I rather play by the rules than result to that.
15 minutes, not enough time even if I was a virgin.
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