Posted By: ziggy440
Legality has its own problems, but they are much more manageable than being arrested, permanently stigmatized (say with a felony conviction) and marginalized with all the other problems that brings.
zig
Would most men date a woman who to mention she's a stripper? It's a completely legal occupation, and yet typically the answer is "no" or at least not date her in a serious take-her-home-to-mamma sort of way. Were legalization to occur in this country, it may require each lady to undergo official documentation as an escort (possibly complete with expensive licensing, as is the case in many occupations). I imagine the best excuse for this would be something along the lines of human trafficking prevention and/or perhaps disease control (even though STDs are documented as slightly lower among American escorts as compared to American civvie women), but we all know most documentations of this sort boil down to money, power, and political as well as cultural control over the populace.
Legalization does not equal social acceptance, and if I had to choose between a publicly registered and documented license/work history in companionship that an employer/family member/whoever else could dig up and discriminate on, or else continuing to operate sub rosa (or even giving the lifestyle up), you bet your cute behind that under no circumstances is my name going on those books. I may be incorrect, but I believe one or two of the Canadian provinces requires such a license. Perhaps one of our Canadian sisters can shed more light on that subject...
There is also the issue of safety for women. Screening is an issue of not just legal safety, but avoidance of physical and financial harm. Despite this, screening severity geographically varies only with the issue of legal safety; the cities/states with less of an agenda to legally pursue professional ladies and their patrons also see the least amount of screening, and vice versa (for most ladies, of course-every are has outliers in both directions). Canada and our own northern border states are excellent examples, as is Chicago in the other direction. In many of these areas, men have grown so accustomed to minimal screening, that all but a very, very few men (usually those who patronize the higher end, which tends to always rely more on full names/information and less on references) simply refuse to give more.
Of course, one could argue that in a legal system, a lady could seek out legal help in case of harm or robbery/rip off, the way a taxi driver or any other high risk contract worker might. However, we are still stuck with the issue that legalization does not equal acceptance, and in similar industries (such as stripping), help is often slow and reluctant, with victims often blamed or soon forgotten. It also doesn't really help to prevent the rape, beating, murder, or robbery in the first place, either, and in an industry that is so dependent on physical looks and the ability to remain comfortable with strangers, these violations are often career crushing. The only way to greatly minimize these risks is through heavy screening, and legalization often thwarts this without offering any alternative safety net for the ladies in question.
Personally, I remain strongly for decriminalization (for both parties involved), but prefer to leave legalization and our vagina controlling government out of it.