A question for both hobbyists and providers. I've read many a review that tallks about how exciting and stimulating the foreplay is that you almost spill your cup in the first few minutes but you hold on, for the main event. With my S.O., I hold out as good as the next guy. Could take up to hour for completion, but with someone new it's not like that. Hell, if it's good, 5 minutes and it could be over. So here's the question: What do you do? Do you warn the provider up front to take it easy, go slow? Or tell her up front you'd like 2 cups ('cause 5 minutes just ain't worth the $$$$?) Providers, what do you prefer? Do you prefer to take it slow, or go normally and go twice around? I'd appreciate any insights into the matter. Thanks.

I know exactly what you are talking about. Since my wife don't give me any, I know I will pop pretty quick with someone new. Should we expect a second servicing if this happens? Is this a question we can ask when arranging a date.

Hi,

I prefer to start very slow and easy, teasing and playing and alot of foreplay, then hard and fast.....Then round two!! (wink)

Kisses,
Selena
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provider should have no problem accomodating you for a second cup should there be plenty of time left on the clock.

Any lady that will shut you off after five minutes isn't worth seeing in the first place (IMHO).

You have every right to ask that question IMHO.  If a provider truely enjoys giving quality time, then this shouldn't be an issue.  Although, I have heard dozens of stories of "one hit wonders" and how these ladies just up and left after the first course.  That just isn't right, no matter how you look at it.  What is the point? Sometimes these encounters take a little time and effort to make them happen. First Contact, Screening, Scheduling, Reserving a room (In or Outcall - one of us have to deal with it usually), Confirmation, Arrival and then finally the time has come to enjoy the "time" that we are looking forward to.  Almost all ladies/services advertise "Rates are for TIME and COMPANIONSHIP ONLY." Therefore she should stay for the agreed upon duration and give the companionship she offered, unless you don't want a second course and politely say goodnight.  I do know one gentleman who never stays for seconds and I find myself damn near beggin him to stay and feed me! lol. Unfortunately his profession does not permit him to linger and I understand that...but should I ever get that man for an extended amount of time, he will be in for the most outrageous meal I can serve.  
I think technique on how to approach the first course, and each there after depends on the gent. Some like to gobble down the appetizer immediately, some like to savor it.  I usually get to know them a little bit, and am not shy about asking to the point questions (once Screening is verified).  I like to know what they enjoy and how they wish their "dinner" served. Nor am I shy about stating my desires as I prefer to enjoy my meal as much as they do.  But then you have your shy or cautious friends who just don't talk about it, even when they sit down to dine.  I understand that, and enjoy playing for a bit to see how they react to each sensation, yet finishing the first course in plenty of time to allow them a bit of time to rejuvinate their hunger with plenty of time for an extra course (or a few) *wink Wink* From my experience the second course usually takes longer to complete and it is more of a relaxed enjoyment. Some gents act like you may steal the first course from them and leave them hungry, yet once the second course is presented they are comfortable savoring the dish since they realize you won't leave them unfulfilled.  I highly recommend being open and honest about your wishes for the encounter. There is nothing wrong with getting to know eachother's preferences beforehand and even those who are strictly business can gain tenfold the pleasure just by understanding the person they are spending time with.  Gents- talking to your lady, expressing your desire doesn't add any strings or baggage...you're not asking her to marry you, you are merely opening the doors for a more pleasurable encounter.  Most Ladies (myself included) will not discuss such matters until they have verified your references etc.  Don't take offense to this.  I like the initial contact to be done with class, a nice email stating all of your screening info, and show your personality. Don't send a one line email saying you wanna "hook up sometime" or "do you do "this"?" First impressions make such a difference.  I am much more likely to agree to meet someone that presents himself well initially, and doesn't make me ask repeatedly for their screening info.  Once your info is verified, feel free to ask questions and let me get to know your likes, dislikes and expectations.  Either way, this is not a cheap hobby. You should recieve an encounter that leaves you in euphoric nirvana for the rest of the week and content that you got your $$$ worth.  More often than not, I am a GFE, so when my gentleman visits I am exactly that his GirlFriend.  The Donation allows me to be at his disposal instead of stuck in the office punching a clock.  I love the attention I get and the many things I have the privledge to experience because of the generosity of my special friends. To those of you who are among my small circle of friends, I thank you for all you have brought into my life and for treating me so wonderfully. I am truely spoiled now because of you and enjoy spoiling you in return.  Have fun and Always stay safe.
Kisses!
Katy