It's probably been discussed before, but what do providers think about sessions with older guys.  By older I mean 55+ up to their 70s.  As I near the 60 mark, I can't bring myself to see a young 20s provider - that's the same age as my kids.  However, seeing someone in their mid to upper 30s who is mature and playful seems very interesting.  I've heard young, but mature providers love being with older guys...

So, to all providers that care to comment, what do you think?

Hell I'm 30 and I prefer mature providers. The younger ones just don't do it for me

....on the "60 and Over" boards. Many providers do prefer older men. As many other choices go, it always comes down to personal preference. Love 'em all....the big, the short, and the tall.......

Shows what I know... I never looked at that board before.  I'm not over 60 yet, but I'm sure I can glean some useful information from it.  Thanks.

If any providers want to chime in and add their thoughts, please do...

The majority that come to see me are a little older...50+ which I love.  However, I have had a couple of clients over 70 and the encounters were not as pleasant.  I enjoy my work and I want to keep enjoying it so I will not likely see clients over 65.  There is such as a thing as too old...IMO.

But most of my regular dates are men that are about my age.  It isnt just the physical sex that creates a connection.. sometimes it is being able to relate.  I grew up in the same time period.. lived through the same pieces of history.. am baffled by some of the same technology.. have similar kid issues.. know the same music, tv, movies.  Also.. and this is something I never expected.  Since I have been in this lifestyle for quite a long time.. in some ways it seems like I am holding hands and growing up WITH some of my partners here.  Very special feeling.

Oldest man I was ever with was 94.  I asked for 100 but dammit.. so far only 94!  Soooo.. any 100 or over men out there to let me join the century club!?  Or even better.. over 100 women???? And yes.. I AM SERIOUS!

You're one of a kind, and make this board more fun with your presence. Glad to know you  

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is a dream! Seeing on who is a third of your age ir pure NIRVANA!!!

The under 23 girls I see LOVE guys 50+/60+. I always ask them about it and why. They say that men in this range treat them SO MUCH BETTER than guys their age. It make them feel special and even better about themselves.

Sure they LOVE the cutie hunks under 25, but all us grown men know that at that age, all men are that age are little boys, and even worse, assholes that do not know how to treat a woman.

Man. just go out and get you some. Enjoy yourself

Well, I dunno about 70s, but 40s, 50s, hell yeah. Give me someone who brings some knowledge to the table.

I am 26 and love to see older gentlemen, you cant base a lady on her age.. ive been told im mature way past my years..

Just like woman can get better with age...so do the men from experience and knowledge. I wouldn't want it any other way. I exclusively take on the 40+ club and I"m in my upper 30's. When both parties are mature people...it's just better.

Let's do this in order.

First off, you are not fucking your kids, any more than you are fucking your mother if you fuck someone who is older than you, or your sister if you are fucking someone who is close to your age. I am not sure exactly why you would find that an issue, but you need to focus on the lady you are seeing and not all those other people in your head and life. Yes, I know many people would judge us harshly for fucking girls younger than our daughters, but that is only one among many ways in which people would judge us harshly, so get past that one the same way you get past the others.

Second, whatever hang ups you may have about your age, however you see yourself, that is not how the provider sees you, so stop projecting. Or at least, stop projecting unpleasant shit into your sessions, and focus on the fun stuff like "she is adorable and sexy and seems to be having a great time, so I must be adorable and sexy and having a great time, too." We could have a long discussion about how providers do see us, but unless she says she does not want to see you, you can safely assume she does not have a problem with your age, looks, hygiene or much else about you. Be courteous, clean, on time, pay immediately without complaint, and respect any requests or instructions she may have for you, and be certain you are in the top 10% of clients, no problem.

If you want to see younger ladies, just do it. Odds are high that after a few visits you will get over your initial issues and either have a good time, or discover those older and wiser ladies really do have a lot more to offer, even if they do not have the perfect, tight, young bodies of your high school fantasies any more. Me, I go through phases - at times I want to see a lady with whom I can have a conversation, and other times I want a young, tight body to admire and ravish.

But their ages, relative to my near and dear, do not enter into it for me.

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I was just in Vegas 3 weeks ago and posted this question on that board, because I wanted to arrange some meetings while I we there. I had heard somewhere that a man shouldn't be with any woman younger than his age plus 7. So in my case, that would be 33. Maybe that is a rule of thumb if you are going to have an affair but I found lots of young ladies willing to see me. I ended seeing 3 ladies, not all at once , 23, 26and 29. I had a wonderful time with each one and the conversations were not awkward and the activities were outstanding! So I guess it comes down to what others have said, if the younger ladies don't have a problem, neither should we older men. If the lady you are seeing is really a skilled professional, I think she will be able to make you feel relaxed, no matter the age difference.

I prefer older gents to younger... They know how everything works... That includes stimulation via intellect...

I believe you have to choose whatever age group(s) that fits your comfort zone.  I also have a few hobbyist friends who feel the same as you about seeing providers as young their kids.  It just makes them feel uncomfortable, so they choose to see providers 30 and above.

I'm in the 50-something age group, but I feel comfortable seeing most providers, regardless of age.  I've never been discriminated by a younger provider because of my age.  In fact, some prefer seeing the more mature gentlemen.  Oh, and being with a young provider in her 20's sorta makes me feel younger myself ...LOL

I do miss caresses, kisses, daty, etc. I just feel reluctant to contact young women for fear of getting a look of rejection in their eyes.

......not saying they are (55+ gents) "easier" but in my experience sessions with them are usually much, much more relaxed. And they obviously don't have a problem with my age (early-ish 20's) because i'd say over 1/2 of my clients are 50+.

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Personally I think a major factor is money. Generally speaking guys in their early to late 20's aren't as well off financially. Older men are much more established in their careers and can afford the finer things in life. My belief is that is why the majority of the providers here say they prefer older men to younger men. That's not to say there aren't other reasons, but the reality of this world is that people can become instantly more attractive when you find out they are financially well off.

We generally prefer older Gentleman, simply put, they know what they want, they are very comfortable with themselves and they are usually very respectful!  Our thoughts.. We like all ages, shapes and sizes too