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perfesser69 21 Reviews 1864 reads

posted 13 years ago

1 / 18

There seen to be an increasing number of ISO postings lately. Don't you find it worthwhile to plan?

With an ISO, you are at the mercy of anyone who is not already booked. Sure, you can check reviews and say "yay" or "nay," but you are not in control of the situation. TER and others have marvelous resources for researching. You can narrow it down to age, height, bust size, hair color and a host of other criteria, including $$$.
Maybe it's no big deal, but if you just wand some flesh wrapped around you, try two slices of liver. You'll get the same effect. LOL
To me, being with a lady is a sspecial event, to be planned and thoroughly researched. Once a selection is made, correspondence just builds anticipation for the event. And a firm appointment increases communication because the lady knows you're not just a lurker or stalker.
I know there are last minute circumstances that allow one to be available, but can't you go just one night wthout an encounter?
From my experience, advance planning makes for far better sessions. The one and onlytime I violated my procedures as a disaster. Every other session was a delight.
Just my $0.02. I look forward to comments.

steamygirlfriend See my TER Reviews 1247 reads

posted 13 years ago

2 / 18

my dates

The quality of the encounter is very important to me.I plan in to a date and make sure the encounter is
just what the DR. ordered.Having a repeat is the ultimate compliment to me.

Posted By: perfesser69

There seen to be an increasing number of ISO postings lately. Don't you find it worthwhile to plan?

With an ISO, you are at the mercy of anyone who is not already booked. Sure, you can check reviews and say "yay" or "nay," but you are not in control of the situation. TER and others have marvelous resources for researching. You can narrow it down to age, height, bust size, hair color and a host of other criteria, including $$$.
Maybe it's no big deal, but if you just wand some flesh wrapped around you, try two slices of liver. You'll get the same effect. LOL
To me, being with a lady is a sspecial event, to be planned and thoroughly researched. Once a selection is made, correspondence just builds anticipation for the event. And a firm appointment increases communication because the lady knows you're not just a lurker or stalker.
I know there are last minute circumstances that allow one to be available, but can't you go just one night wthout an encounter?
From my experience, advance planning makes for far better sessions. The one and onlytime I violated my procedures as a disaster. Every other session was a delight.
Just my $0.02. I look forward to comments.

peter_thepied 28 Reviews 673 reads

posted 13 years ago

3 / 18

$0.02

We are all here for different reasons. Glad you are enjoying your time here.

Stay warm!

perfesser69 21 Reviews 618 reads

posted 13 years ago

4 / 18

I've seen Steamy a few times. She IS all about quality. (eom)

Posted By: steamygirlfriend

The quality of the encounter is very important to me.I plan in to a date and make sure the encounter is
just what the DR. ordered.Having a repeat is the ultimate compliment to me.

Posted By: perfesser69

There seen to be an increasing number of ISO postings lately. Don't you find it worthwhile to plan?

With an ISO, you are at the mercy of anyone who is not already booked. Sure, you can check reviews and say "yay" or "nay," but you are not in control of the situation. TER and others have marvelous resources for researching. You can narrow it down to age, height, bust size, hair color and a host of other criteria, including $$$.
Maybe it's no big deal, but if you just wand some flesh wrapped around you, try two slices of liver. You'll get the same effect. LOL
To me, being with a lady is a sspecial event, to be planned and thoroughly researched. Once a selection is made, correspondence just builds anticipation for the event. And a firm appointment increases communication because the lady knows you're not just a lurker or stalker.
I know there are last minute circumstances that allow one to be available, but can't you go just one night wthout an encounter?
From my experience, advance planning makes for far better sessions. The one and onlytime I violated my procedures as a disaster. Every other session was a delight.
Just my $0.02. I look forward to comments.

reward54 3 Reviews 620 reads

posted 13 years ago

5 / 18

Plan or Not?

I normally plan 1 or 2 weeks in advance, but I'm finding my encounters are more fulfilling on short notice (sameday)... This is just me. Everyone is different... I think with longer planning there is to much time playing it out in my head... The actual has a hard time living up with the imagined, both for her and for me. LOL.. Live in the moment, right.
The problem I have have with short notice is settling for who's available over who you want. That can be a real FN bummer, so sometimes you just have say no and walk away, rather than gut through a terrible provider or ripoff.
Planning works better for me, but I really enjoy a heightened sense of arousal with short notice...

bebedoll See my TER Reviews 708 reads

posted 13 years ago

6 / 18

I personally LIKE iso's

some of us have to be utr at times and dont want to post an "ad".. so we can pm a person of interest and open up the line of LUST and begin the dance directly

Posted By: perfesser69

There seen to be an increasing number of ISO postings lately. Don't you find it worthwhile to plan?

With an ISO, you are at the mercy of anyone who is not already booked. Sure, you can check reviews and say "yay" or "nay," but you are not in control of the situation. TER and others have marvelous resources for researching. You can narrow it down to age, height, bust size, hair color and a host of other criteria, including $$$.
Maybe it's no big deal, but if you just wand some flesh wrapped around you, try two slices of liver. You'll get the same effect. LOL
To me, being with a lady is a sspecial event, to be planned and thoroughly researched. Once a selection is made, correspondence just builds anticipation for the event. And a firm appointment increases communication because the lady knows you're not just a lurker or stalker.
I know there are last minute circumstances that allow one to be available, but can't you go just one night wthout an encounter?
From my experience, advance planning makes for far better sessions. The one and onlytime I violated my procedures as a disaster. Every other session was a delight.
Just my $0.02. I look forward to comments.

perfesser69 21 Reviews 654 reads

posted 13 years ago

7 / 18

It seems like there's a lot ...

It seems like there's a lot to be said for both approaches. And if Bebedoll likes ISOs, who am I to argue. I look upon her as the ultimate authority in this hobby.

Posted By: bebedoll

some of us have to be utr at times and dont want to post an "ad".. so we can pm a person of interest and open up the line of LUST and begin the dance directly

Posted By: perfesser69

There seen to be an increasing number of ISO postings lately. Don't you find it worthwhile to plan?

With an ISO, you are at the mercy of anyone who is not already booked. Sure, you can check reviews and say "yay" or "nay," but you are not in control of the situation. TER and others have marvelous resources for researching. You can narrow it down to age, height, bust size, hair color and a host of other criteria, including $$$.
Maybe it's no big deal, but if you just wand some flesh wrapped around you, try two slices of liver. You'll get the same effect. LOL
To me, being with a lady is a sspecial event, to be planned and thoroughly researched. Once a selection is made, correspondence just builds anticipation for the event. And a firm appointment increases communication because the lady knows you're not just a lurker or stalker.
I know there are last minute circumstances that allow one to be available, but can't you go just one night wthout an encounter?
From my experience, advance planning makes for far better sessions. The one and onlytime I violated my procedures as a disaster. Every other session was a delight.
Just my $0.02. I look forward to comments.

peter_thepied 28 Reviews 493 reads

posted 13 years ago

8 / 18

Re: It seems like there's a lot ...

I don't plan because I normally with someone. ISOs are last minute when I need to get a game going.

I think our diversity in what we all want is what makes this hobby thrive so well.

TGlenn 10 Reviews 616 reads

posted 13 years ago

9 / 18

Re: my dates

I'm glad I planned ahead to enjoy SteamyGirlfriend
AWESOME companionship !! check RS2K
Hope to have the opportuity enjoy her talents again in the near future !!!!

BeautywithBrains See my TER Reviews 635 reads

posted 13 years ago

10 / 18

I prefer a gentleman to pre-plan....

...as far in advance, as possible.

I visit with a few gentlemen per week when in DC, and a few per day, when traveling. Most of my dates are multi hour, and I enjoy the anticipation, of meeting a new friend for lunch, cocktails, dinner, etc. It's like getting ready for a first date! Like the OP said, you also have time to build a bit of a rapport, which only makes for a more stimulating experience.

While I can, at times, honor a same day request, it is usually because I have visited with the gentleman before.

Just my .02.

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

StapleCenter 630 Reviews 550 reads

posted 13 years ago

11 / 18

Well stated.....eom

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asgmp 6 Reviews 624 reads

posted 13 years ago

12 / 18

Re: I've seen Steamy a few times. She IS all about quality. (eom)

Link for steamy?

Posted By: perfesser69

Posted By: steamygirlfriend

The quality of the encounter is very important to me.I plan in to a date and make sure the encounter is
just what the DR. ordered.Having a repeat is the ultimate compliment to me.

Posted By: perfesser69

There seen to be an increasing number of ISO postings lately. Don't you find it worthwhile to plan?

With an ISO, you are at the mercy of anyone who is not already booked. Sure, you can check reviews and say "yay" or "nay," but you are not in control of the situation. TER and others have marvelous resources for researching. You can narrow it down to age, height, bust size, hair color and a host of other criteria, including $$$.
Maybe it's no big deal, but if you just wand some flesh wrapped around you, try two slices of liver. You'll get the same effect. LOL
To me, being with a lady is a sspecial event, to be planned and thoroughly researched. Once a selection is made, correspondence just builds anticipation for the event. And a firm appointment increases communication because the lady knows you're not just a lurker or stalker.
I know there are last minute circumstances that allow one to be available, but can't you go just one night wthout an encounter?
From my experience, advance planning makes for far better sessions. The one and onlytime I violated my procedures as a disaster. Every other session was a delight.
Just my $0.02. I look forward to comments.

Sexy7Cassie See my TER Reviews 580 reads

posted 13 years ago

13 / 18

Advance Planning is Best!

I totally agree that advanced planning of a "special" sexy encounter is the way to go. Both parties are thoroughly cleared ahead of time and I love the exchange of fun and flirty email exchanges or phone calls that lead up to the "special" rendezvous that is sooo looked forward to. Anticipation is the greatest expectation of a well planned encounter that will be a lasting memory for both with hopefully more to follow, leaving both parties on the edge of their erotic seats until that happens again. Being with a gent that plans in advance, you can expect being with a very classy smart man that will make your "special" nite an awesome time and I have been lucky enough to be in that position. Any more new takers? Lust & Hugs... SexyCassie

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TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 578 reads

posted 13 years ago

14 / 18

I met a few really great guys from answering ISO's on this board -e-

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Gosloforme 81 Reviews 444 reads

posted 13 years ago

15 / 18

Advance planning does not always work

I usually start planning a few weeks before visiting a city for business.
Unfortunately, even confirmed dates have been known to cancel (with very little warning).
That is where an ISO can really help out. Recently, I have also assebled a backup list - just in case of a cancellation.

pippamactaggert See my TER Reviews 392 reads

posted 13 years ago

16 / 18

Gotta say, I see both sides

In terms of work, it is almost impossible to properly screen a new gent in time to make an ISO happen. But, man do I try hard. I definitely understand the urgency of having to have something at JUST that moment. And I think it is totally hot to be a respondent to someone's urgent need.

Posted By: perfesser69

There seen to be an increasing number of ISO postings lately. Don't you find it worthwhile to plan?

With an ISO, you are at the mercy of anyone who is not already booked. Sure, you can check reviews and say "yay" or "nay," but you are not in control of the situation. TER and others have marvelous resources for researching. You can narrow it down to age, height, bust size, hair color and a host of other criteria, including $$$.
Maybe it's no big deal, but if you just wand some flesh wrapped around you, try two slices of liver. You'll get the same effect. LOL
To me, being with a lady is a sspecial event, to be planned and thoroughly researched. Once a selection is made, correspondence just builds anticipation for the event. And a firm appointment increases communication because the lady knows you're not just a lurker or stalker.
I know there are last minute circumstances that allow one to be available, but can't you go just one night wthout an encounter?
From my experience, advance planning makes for far better sessions. The one and onlytime I violated my procedures as a disaster. Every other session was a delight.
Just my $0.02. I look forward to comments.