There are alot of really great ladies out there, and as I come across someone that I believe I would really like to see, I put them in my favorites list. Well my favorites list is starting to build to a large enough number, that it is not doing me alot of good. With so man amazing ladies out there, I was wondering how you guys narrow it down and make your decisions.

Part of my problem is that I truly enjoy different types of women. I love short thin, petite women, I also love tall curvy women.  

Most of the women I have seen lately have been because we have corresponded on the board, or PM, then through a few emails, and I felt that we would have some good chemistry. Chemistry is the most important part for me, but it is pretty impossible to create a search criteria for who you would have good chemistry with.

So if there are currently a couple of dozen great ladies in my favorites list, and I can realistically afford to hobby once a month. That would take me 2 years to get through the list, without seeing anyone more than once that really captured my attention, and without adding anyone new to the list that captured my atteniton on the boards.

Maybe the bigger problem is that I am spending too much time on TER, thus creating the opportunity for more ladies to capture my attention. I do enjoy communicating wiith people here though.

Any suggestions would be great.

Ooooooh Baby

And the list just got longer.

due to my situation my priorities go like this. Those that I want to see again, and mixed in by availability and funds ones where reviews, board persona and looks (petite, dark hair and feisty) determine the order of my longing.

Nothing a ton of hundred dollar bills wont solve.

but I'm not tall. 5'5".

Did I make the cut?

Steph xoxo

My favorites list is now 7 pages long! lol! I would truly love to meet them all, but I know that's not realistically possible.  

Here is one thing that helps me choose a provider. Like you, chemistry is king for me, so I love it when a lady has a blog on her website. It gives me some insight into her personality and helps me determine if we would be compatible. That's what sold me on my regular provider. She was the first provider I saw when I entered into the hobby, and I could not have made a better choice. We've been seeing each other for almost a year now, and it's been completely lovely.

I have branched out a little here lately and seen a couple other providers. The problem I'm running into now is that I adore all these ladies and want to continue seeing ALL of them on a regular basis. I only wish I could, but unfortunately my budget won't allow it.

I also go off of the ladies reviews. If most of her reviewers only talk of the act itself and little of her personality, I would probably pass. If however, a lot of her reviewers talk about her charm, wit, intelligence, grace, sense of humor, etc. , that will definitely get my attention. Again, the chemistry thing.

The only suggestion I can offer is to enjoy the ride. After all, wanting to meet and spend time with a LOT of lovely ladies is a pretty damn good problem to have, isn't it?     ------ Rober

Well, you could have whittled your list down a fair amount this week in Raleigh given that there were five porn stars here for a few days last week:  Aubrey Addams (petite and busty), Amber Rayne (medium-height and thin), Faith Leon (tall and a cover girl model), Lexi Love (petite and blonde), and Tessa Lane (tall and curvy).  Save up your money and, just like the planets aligning ever so often, good things eventually happen.  

Check out Keen when's she's on tour. Tall, beautiful, redhead.
http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=230723

I'm tall in heels (5'5"without) and have rocking curves.. Plus I'm retiring in less than a month! Maybe it's meant to be!

There's nothing like spending a lot of time in southeastern NC to keep a wish list nice and narrow.  Yes, there are some fine ladies here, but it can be pretty tough to arrange a visit without lots of advance planning and driving.  Having spent some time in DC myself, my advice to you would be that you not try to be like a kid in a candy store thinking you have to sample every flavor they have there when you know you really like chocolate truffles the best.

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