One lady who I otherwise click with isn't into kissing, so I stopped visiting her.  Too bad to because she has the mouth to be an awesome kisser.

..... constantly just sucking on the lips or trying to choke me with your tongue isn't good kissing. I'll play along and try to guide him with my own mouth but bad kissing can throw things off. Won't kill the mood but...again can put a damper on just a little bit. Kissing (good kissing) is a very important part of my date.

The ability or even the willingness for a lady to become vulnerable enough to display affection in such a personal what helps me to relax.  A kiss, for me, is very sensual and sexy when it lingers, is playful and sets the tone for what is to be.  I am a very oral one and anything that happens with my lips and tongue is stimulating to me.  As many of us might also have........luggage associated with sex and kissing is simple, intimate but not intrusive and keeps me close to the lady's eyes.