With all that is going on with BP I'm a little worried. What is the best (safest) sight to use. I am a member of TER. I used to be on P-411 but became disappointed.

This site gives you the most information.  While reviews can be subjective you can at least do some research to ensure they lady you plan to meet is legit.  Now I use P411 and eros to check to see who may be in the area but I always combine them with TER to obtain a better picture of my possible date.  I look at BP from time to time to check out the pictures and sometimes a reputable lady posts an ad on that site.  I always check for reviews on ads I see on BP.

As a reputable provider I would never recommend BP to anyone that looks for safety, professionalism and reliability. I have always distinguished myself from low class cheap girls because I am a true provider not just a F*&@. I would suggest you stick only to Eros and p411. TER is also good if you want to make sure she is legit but I have noticed a lot of high end models are now deciding to protect the hobbyists privacy and opt out of TER. Consider that too.

P411 is the best for actually seeing someone - pretty much flawless and had really great times through P411. Consider the $$ spent on P411 like insurance

I've kind of been wondering the same. Just getting back into the hobby after a long timd off, seems everyone refers to P4111 as the gold standard. I also agree about some diamonds in the rough on BP. Recently met 2 charming ladies, but both also have info and reviews Here. Dont think I would meet someone from there who doesn't have a review here. Its notjust what is in review either. I don't review much as can be seen, but I also only do so if They ask or I ask Them prior as well as details. I personally don't Want to get to descriptive unless asked. Just a sign of respect to me.