You are right in that it is an oft discussed topic both on it's own and through other related threads.  I do of course read reviews, and am frequently amazed at the amount of nearly specific information about location that TER allows through.  Not cool, in so many ways!   As for the other stuff, I think some guys just like to brag, and other's are just naive and may think they are actually helping the lady in some way by portraying her as not being a clock watcher.  As was pointed out in a recent thread on the GD board, just because you don't SEE a lady look at the envelop, it doesn't mean she hasn't.  Also, if you are fortunate enough to be able to enjoy "extra" time with a lady, you should be appreciative and understand that it may not be something that she wishes to offer to everyone, or even to you on every visit.

I think a lot of guys, especially newbies, read other reviews and emulate them.  So if there are bad habits exibited in the way of too much identifying detail or unrealistic expectations, then they get copied.  With that in mind, it may not be a bad idea for you or someone to post something like this on the Newbie board to help new guys understand a provider's perspective and get started right, by giving an honest review of the ladies appearance, performance, skills, their paid amount of time.

I have to agree with you Julia.  I try not to mention the donation at all because that's not what the date is all about.  I do my best to try and paint a picture of the time I had.  I feel this is important because it gives everyone else a little idea of what the lady is like.  It also lets someone know or at least gives and idea of if this is someone they can relate to.

To much information not directly related to the date can be bad.  

When doing my research I try to read more than one review.  That does give me a better understanding, in my humble opinion.

I have also respected the wishes of the lady and not done a review or when asked, provided a review.

correct.  And I dont like fellas pming me asking questions like where did you see her.  The city is ok but dont ask me for the hotel or whatever.

And a good point on the envelope I never thought of that, I think many will put that in to say that the fantasy was improved by that but I can usually see it in the ladies website.  You know, comments like,  put it in an unmarked envelope and leave it in the open.   People that rip off the ladies intentionally should be black listed.  

As far as extra time, that is between 2 adults.  It is private and should not be mentioned. And yes I have left things out of my reviews cause I felt it to be private.  Whether it was an awkward moment where someone tripped or something she did that she does not advertize.  Those things stay out

the location has been the cause of me sucking in my breath and mumbling curse words about the idiot who outs a lady's specific location. I have alerted couple agency owners to remind the ladies to tell clients not to do that as it could lead to some bad, unflattering pics.

I am also shaking my head (and mussing up what hair I have left) over ladies pinpointing their own locations, i.e. "near the crabshack mall", etc.

When I meet a lady for the first couple times at their place, I put the card with some green coloring down and head for the mens room to wash my hands, etc, depending on if it has been longer than 30 minutes since I have been on the road singing "on the road again"--I get all happy thinking about what is waiting at the end of that road;P~~~ That gives them the chance to check out their gift for their time.

I wish ALL the ladies would send their dates to the water room to wash(SCRUB) their hands( SOAP & WARM WATER) first thing, as I said below you ladies do not know where those fingers have been just prior to petting your ^..^!!!  It is just  like what we use to do in the early days of the sexual revolution, i.e. BBing when the ladies first learned that they deserved as much pleasure from a dance as the next guy;P~~~

Ladies it is your "house" and we guys are "guests" therein, sooooooo, make us take off our shoes, etc)