So I am a brand newbie. Considering a provider because I'm dying for bbbjcim and my girl won't do it.   I'm paranoid as hell of taking home an std to her but seems awkward asking a provider if she's std free. So  do you ask? Do providers want something from me showing I'm disease free as well?  Feedback appreciated. Honestly I'm not sure of etiquette.

This might not be the hobby for you.  

I asked the same question on the board when I was new, 4 years ago. An experienced girl answered that if there were stds to be caught by giving bbbjs then everyone in the hobby would have one.  

Thank you.

It is possible to pass on viruses and bacteria during bbbj

Do you really expect someone who picks up a VD in the hobby to come on the public board and announce it? It would be hobby suicide

Thanks. Just what I needed. Brutal honesty. I'd love a bbbj cim but not at expense of taking virus home to my woman when every other aspect of our sex life is good.

I agree with your comment, Marie.  

A seasoned, professional lady gets tested regularly and is conscious about her health so the chances are low.  The majority of ladies on this board are great ladies so you will have to do your research and find one that meets your criteria.  Ms Marie who responded is a great lady!
Good luck

Most ladies like myself are fine with BBBJ but CIM is no different and no less dangerous than bb fs. Its not anymore of a risk to you BUT regardless of which orifice it goes in the risk of VD is the same when your seed enters my body. Any provider willing to have BB FS or BBBJCIM won't stay clean for long and even if she doesn't care about her safety you should care more about yours. As mentioned earlier , no one is going to say "Oh by the way ,just found out I got the clap but don't worry I started antibiotics the other day." Some things can't be cured with a DR's visit and a prescription. Wipe this CIM nonsense from your mind and RUN don't walk, away from anyone who allows exchange of sexual fluids with their clients. Its a dirty, dirty world out there, stay clean,  stay safe or get burnt!

... haven't caught a thing.
I test thoroughly every 3 months. I would like to think others test as much or more but I dunno.  I don't think most ladies or guys are walking into dates with their papers though.  
If the paranoia of getting something is too much just stick to someone that is cbj only or when you meet with a provider who does bbbj you can simply say after you're both naked and comfortable that you'd rather a cbj. If she can suck a dick great without a condom she can do it just as well with one (just put a little lube inside the condom).

I ain’t a doctor, but, virtually no TER lady provides FS whereas many TER ladies provide CIM.  If STD’s could be transferred by CIM there would be a lotta TER ladies outta biz.
Anyone disagree??