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Marie69 See my TER Reviews 136 reads
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Do you really expect someone who picks up a VD in the hobby to come on the public board and announce it? It would be hobby suicide

I did not intend for the above to sound snarky. I meant it in a food for thought kind of way

Sometimes there just aren't enough emojis

ADRman1790 reads

So I am a brand newbie. Considering a provider because I'm dying for bbbjcim and my girl won't do it.   I'm paranoid as hell of taking home an std to her but seems awkward asking a provider if she's std free. So  do you ask? Do providers want something from me showing I'm disease free as well?  Feedback appreciated. Honestly I'm not sure of etiquette.

This might not be the hobby for you.  

And not sure how a lady would react to that question. Most of the ladies here are very professional an this should go without asking.  

Do your research. If you are scared then you are only putting yourself but also the  provider in a bad situation.

Rufus-T-Firefly138 reads

I asked the same question on the board when I was new, 4 years ago. An experienced girl answered that if there were stds to be caught by giving bbbjs then everyone in the hobby would have one.  

And since they don't, there's probably not much to worry about.  

Other people might have a different experience.

Do you really expect someone who picks up a VD in the hobby to come on the public board and announce it? It would be hobby suicide

I did not intend for the above to sound snarky. I meant it in a food for thought kind of way

Sometimes there just aren't enough emojis

Rufus-T-Firefly117 reads

I agree with your comment, Marie.  

I do wonder, though, why it is that in my experience, that out of 60 girls over the last 5 years only two or three insisted on covered bjs, and none insisted on covered daty. It seems that most are willing to kiss after daty, as a previous thread on this board from a week or so ago demonstrated.  

I'm not going by the medical evidence, which from what I've read goes contrary to my comment, and I don't doubt your assertion about how people think. Rather, I'm going by the conduct of pretty much everyone in the hobby who doesn't seem to think there is much, if any, risk. Most simply don't cover up for oral.

It is possible to pass on viruses and bacteria during bbbj

If you go to see a provider and unbeknownst to you she has bleeding gums or a sore in her mouth, I seriously doubt she is going to tell you these things if her rent is due the next day.

If you expect a total stranger to be honest with you, you may want to find another hobby.

ADRman150 reads

Thanks. Just what I needed. Brutal honesty. I'd love a bbbj cim but not at expense of taking virus home to my woman when every other aspect of our sex life is good.

A seasoned, professional lady gets tested regularly and is conscious about her health so the chances are low.  The majority of ladies on this board are great ladies so you will have to do your research and find one that meets your criteria.  Ms Marie who responded is a great lady!
Good luck

Most ladies like myself are fine with BBBJ but CIM is no different and no less dangerous than bb fs. Its not anymore of a risk to you BUT regardless of which orifice it goes in the risk of VD is the same when your seed enters my body. Any provider willing to have BB FS or BBBJCIM won't stay clean for long and even if she doesn't care about her safety you should care more about yours. As mentioned earlier , no one is going to say "Oh by the way ,just found out I got the clap but don't worry I started antibiotics the other day." Some things can't be cured with a DR's visit and a prescription. Wipe this CIM nonsense from your mind and RUN don't walk, away from anyone who allows exchange of sexual fluids with their clients. Its a dirty, dirty world out there, stay clean,  stay safe or get burnt!

... haven't caught a thing.
I test thoroughly every 3 months. I would like to think others test as much or more but I dunno.  I don't think most ladies or guys are walking into dates with their papers though.  
If the paranoia of getting something is too much just stick to someone that is cbj only or when you meet with a provider who does bbbj you can simply say after you're both naked and comfortable that you'd rather a cbj. If she can suck a dick great without a condom she can do it just as well with one (just put a little lube inside the condom).

Mr.M.Johnson148 reads

I ain’t a doctor, but, virtually no TER lady provides FS whereas many TER ladies provide CIM.  If STD’s could be transferred by CIM there would be a lotta TER ladies outta biz.
Anyone disagree??

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