If not, maybe they should be. If they are, there is nothing wrong with looking for some intimacy without an envelope.

There could also be a self esteem issue that may come into play. Finding someone to fuck them because they are attractive or have a nice personality as opposed to a piece of meat for sale.

I would say escorts are safer. A reputable provider will take precautions to ensure her safety and keep herself STD free. If a lady picks up or spreads something once the word gets out, she's done. This whole game is a win win for everybody good safe fun with NSA. Sure I may spend 500 bucks for a couple hours of fun but the positives outweigh the negatives if I stick to well reviews ladies and do a bit of research. For one more than likely the lady I'm seeing would probally be out of my league in the civvie world, I'm a married guy ( still happy just like a bit of variety) but no provider is gonna fall in love and want to break up my home life. It's a great illusion we see eachother at their best, so if you click well the friendships can be great as you usually don't see the "real" person. Ya know the guy who forgets to take the trash out or leaves his socks in the floor. Likewise I don't care how much you spend on shoes or have to pretend I like you're mother. And the coolest thing is the whole reference thing, I usually give a lady a heads up if another provider is gonna contact her for a reference, this isn't how I word it but basically this is what is between the lines...

Hey xxxxx,
Hope you're well I really would like to see you again soon, had an amazing time (read that thing you did with my balls was awesome!!!!). We really hit it off the sex was great OMG what a nice ass you have. BTW I saw this new gal on TER she seems really nice (again read this way holy crap what a freakin rack on her, and the reviews say she allows CIM!!!) so I wanna nail her so bad so I told her you would vouch for me that I'm not a total weirdo. If ya could dress it up a bit and maybe don't tell her about that one time I was a little quick on the trigger that would be great. Have a great day!!!

Of course nobodys gonna ask for a reference like that, but ya get the point. If I treat you well and act like a decent human should, don't haggle and make sure to shower. A good lady will vouch for you so you can see another lady. Try that in the real world guys!!!! So why escort is a dirty word is beyond me I personally think its safer than bar hopping and a lot less drama. Oh BTW thanks to all the ladies who have given me a reference to enjoy all the variety and safe fun this hobby can offer!!  

PS oh and thanks for not saying anything about that one time it will be our secret LOL!!!

Unless there is a huge intake of alcohol, the one night standers usually play with guys they are attracted to. That is not necessarily true for providers.

I have found many escorts are just want to have a good time but know where the line is.  Some are friends,  some are swinger friends....I like the swinger friends better.  I would rather have fun with someone that wasnt drunk and could remember me when I called back.

Regulars

I agree with Case . . . on everything.  I choose to stay with those that are reputable (and you know one very well.)  

Taking home surprises from bars was okay back in college, but very risky.  Like so many mistakes we make "growing up," that's one I will not repeat.

To pass out on you in the middle of the act. lol

There are some GREAT ladies in the hobby and some NOT!

Outside of the hobby there are some great ladies and some NOT!

The hobby is not the defining factor for me abut what a gal is all about.

It is about the three pounds of grey matter between their ears.

I Concur!

Shifterp OUT!

but some hypocrites. Most escorts I have met have lot more class than those I have met in bars.  

Majority of human beings are predisposed to being judgmental based on some bullshit they were taught when they wed young. Most people judge every pretty much everything others do, humans are predisposed the condition. One drawback of have a neo-cortex, the part of the brain used for decision making and only humans have it.

In my opinion escorting is an ancient and honorable profession.
I also feel like babes that like to bar hop and have a little fun should not be labled or demeaned for what they enjoy.
Who the F are any of us to pass judgement on others