I have a few girl friends who go out and regularly meet guys and have one night stands... I just don't get it.

I have just started dating again and I find that I am much less likely to do the above. I think because of what I do here on the side..

Guys don't seem to think much less of ladies who do the bar hop.. but being an escort is still a dirty word..

what are your thoughts?

If not, maybe they should be. If they are, there is nothing wrong with looking for some intimacy without an envelope.

There could also be a self esteem issue that may come into play. Finding someone to fuck them because they are attractive or have a nice personality as opposed to a piece of meat for sale.

Ha ha.. No she is not but I often think she would be a damn good one.. Actually, I think she is. She just chooses to go about it another way.. LOL.. Free drinks, dinners etc. etc...

I am not judging her.. who I am to judge.. I just found it interesting...

I would say escorts are safer. A reputable provider will take precautions to ensure her safety and keep herself STD free. If a lady picks up or spreads something once the word gets out, she's done. This whole game is a win win for everybody good safe fun with NSA. Sure I may spend 500 bucks for a couple hours of fun but the positives outweigh the negatives if I stick to well reviews ladies and do a bit of research. For one more than likely the lady I'm seeing would probally be out of my league in the civvie world, I'm a married guy ( still happy just like a bit of variety) but no provider is gonna fall in love and want to break up my home life. It's a great illusion we see eachother at their best, so if you click well the friendships can be great as you usually don't see the "real" person. Ya know the guy who forgets to take the trash out or leaves his socks in the floor. Likewise I don't care how much you spend on shoes or have to pretend I like you're mother. And the coolest thing is the whole reference thing, I usually give a lady a heads up if another provider is gonna contact her for a reference, this isn't how I word it but basically this is what is between the lines...

Thanks for sharing.. your view point is refreshing to hear

Unless there is a huge intake of alcohol, the one night standers usually play with guys they are attracted to. That is not necessarily true for providers.

Also it's easier to leave emotions out of it in the Hobbywood. I've seen a couple gals that during the session that sometimes those lines seem to get blurred a bit, dang those are the best. It's more like my favorite L word Lust!! Sometime there is an actual physical chemistry thing going both ways but at the end of the day it's still a buisness transaction even if it can almost feel genuine for a couple hours.

I have found many escorts are just want to have a good time but know where the line is.  Some are friends,  some are swinger friends....I like the swinger friends better.  I would rather have fun with someone that wasnt drunk and could remember me when I called back.

I agree with Case . . . on everything.  I choose to stay with those that are reputable (and you know one very well.)  

Yes, for those times that you click, the time flies by, it is sooooo special.  Lately, I have been VERY lucky.  And to think, earlier this year I was thinking about getting out of this hobby..........

To pass out on you in the middle of the act. lol

So true!!! With a little research you are pretty much guaranteed an awesome experience and no drama.

There are some GREAT ladies in the hobby and some NOT!

but some hypocrites. Most escorts I have met have lot more class than those I have met in bars.  

using the limbric brain more!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

In my opinion escorting is an ancient and honorable profession.
I also feel like babes that like to bar hop and have a little fun should not be labled or demeaned for what they enjoy.
Who the F are any of us to pass judgement on others