What I was trying to say was if I was the Guy I could not be offended if you wanted to leave my screening, contact and an itinerary with a trusted friend. It is your safety that is all that matters. Ever
I love what I do. I do not consider myself to be "the baddest bitch" but I wear my dignity well...
I know I am a gem in all this muck. I do what I do well, take pride in my skills, and I ain't too shabby to look at!
Now there comes a point when a lady has to re-evaluate their professional worth...
However, after 4 piddly reviews (all good ones, however, not bragging rights, right?) I do not feel the need to reevaluate yet- based my skills/reviews/time etc...
In the matter of 2 days, I have had two requests for bookings for a weekend (different ones, obviously.)
And both clients made offers, of how much (since obviously this noob didn't have weekend rates posted, planned, or anticipated!) I am finding it tad overwhelming!
Maybe I am still noobish- my civvie mind is telling me these amounts of money are INSANE-
and it's not that I don't feel worthy, well, perhaps not totally... Maybe humility? Self doubt?
Maybe it's because I grew up eating a LOT of Ramen noodles, if ya know what I mean, I am feeling a bit like an over-achieving hooker!! LMAO
I suppose I have a few reviews to back up my worth/service... I just really find it stunning.
Any of you ladies ever feel like that?!
Yes men, go ahead and laugh. There is one female here who doesn't think her pussy is lined with gold! (Although, I have been told "There's goldup in them there hills!")
How funny that is the exact song I had in my head as I was writing that post!
It's not easy being "on" for 12+ hours with someone you may or may not know very well. You get tired, hungry, may feel weird about going to the bathroom, feel obligated to look good even if you want to just put on sweats, you need to be entertaining even if you just want to relax, etc. You deserve ever dollar you make, plus more.
Before the hobby, I have existed with assholes, dicks, cunts, unappreciative, and control freaks... And some of them family. (MOST)... For which I am not compensated, and yet criticized or (attempted to be) controlled. Needless to say, I buck.
I am not saying being on the clock 24 hrs won't be hard- but I have dealt with as a badly without any compensation. I am sure I can survive this. I will keep thinking,
"Money. Sex. Smile. Money. Sex. Smile."
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I think about the times the lady snored and farted in her sleep. Not throwing rocks because I am the guy your talking about. In one orifice and out the other LOL
If not I strongly suggest it as I think some of this is best discussed among the "ladies" if you catch my drift!
Let me know if I can help in any way!
xoxo,
Steph
I wasn't even aware there was a ladies board!
I've only been hitting the boards a week or two- and just figured out a few nights ago where the messenger worked & that I could use it (as I am not a paid member!)
Thank-you for pointing it out!
I'm not overly worried as Popeye said, "I yam who I yam." No pretenses.
A lot of my clients are repeats because of it
I think you would like having access. You don't have to be a paid member.
xoxo,
Steph
I don't know why, I have 4 reviews, & have been posting a few weeks....
Grrrrrrr....
(frustrated foot stomp...)
Let me know if I can help in any way!
xoxo,
Steph
Not unsual to be denied the first time you ask. I think they just like messing with you some times.
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What I was trying to say was if I was the Guy I could not be offended if you wanted to leave my screening, contact and an itinerary with a trusted friend. It is your safety that is all that matters. Ever
I'm in a different part of the country, so YMMV.
Looking at your pictures, I see a lovely lady.
Looking at your reviews, I see satisfied guys.
Looking at your rates, I think you are too low.
It's just my opinion, and don't sell yourself short. Take a serious look at the rates in your area, and take a second look to make sure you not cheating yourself out of a good living.
Women who charge insane rates do so for one reason and one reason only... because they CAN. The more money I made at a regular job, the higher my rate was in the hobby, because I simply did not need the money as bad to take any less. It's not rocket science. Those dependent only on this business are victims of the market... others, are not. I would have starved to death in my area if I needed to even see 3 or 4 guys a week... just the facts.
I gave up my hourly rate within a year of providing, because it was simply not worth it to me, nor were those my favorite type of clients. I was expected to do more work in an hour than I have done on a 3500 dollar overnight... that's absurd. I felt like a hole to fill, and quite frankly what more can you truly accomplish in an hour, but to fk?
Just because a woman charges 500 or 5k does not mean she thinks "her p*ssy is made of gold" as you insinuated. It simply means she CAN charge that much, because she does not have to be here as much as the next person.
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