Recently a member of the Boston board community posted regarding his frustration with a local agency. According to the poster, he was refused services because he is black. Other threads relevant to this topic have appeared this week on the Florida, Boston, Atlanta and National boards.

This topic goes beyond the issue of racism. Some would say that providers should see everyone. We know that, realistically, this is not the case. Some ladies impose age restrictions or weight or other restrictions related to physical appearance as well as race restrictions. What is the answer?

A. See everybody or get out of the business.

B. The other restrictions are okay but restrictions based on race are not.

C. It’s her body; she can impose whatever restrictions that she feels necessary.

D. The answer is C but she must tell us about it upfront.

E. [Your solution]

This is a hot button topic without question. Take a look at the existing threads.

http://theeroticreview.com/msgBoard/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=19377&boardID=9&page=6

http://theeroticreview.com/msgBoard/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=77725&boardID=12&page=1

http://theeroticreview.com/msgBoard/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=7407&boardID=16&page=1

http://theeroticreview.com/msgBoard/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=15420&boardID=18&page=1

http://theeroticreview.com/msgBoard/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=19878&boardID=9&page=1

I would like to invite everyone who has an opinion on this topic to a chat in the Boston chat room next Wednesday, February 18th @ 9:00 P.M. ET/ 6:00 P.M. PT. (If you’re located in another time zone and you’re confused, just enter the chat room the night before. At least you’ll be guaranteed a good seat.

thirsty

Without question it is D.  I don't see how there is any other correct answer than that.  Doing what they do, does not mean they have to give into things they don't feel comfortable with no matter if it is weight, small members, race etc...  Being large myself, I'm upfront about my wieght and would let anyone I was interested in know with first contact.  Should they have a problem with it, my money is good somewhere else, and I would not care.

I am still trying to figure out why this is such a big issue. This must be one of those politically correct avalanche. The only problem is this is not a Political issue or a discrimination issue. Strictly a personal choice. Last time checked, we still have that right intact, doesn't it?

There are many reasons people make choices. I am sure we all have made choices as to, whom we want to friends with, whom we wantg to date, with whom we want to have intimate relations with, somewhere along the way.

As such, I would think every provider have the right to make that choice. I have had appointments scheduled with providers and when I got there, something didn't feel right and I have given the lady $50 for the trouble and walked away.


Finally, your race and gender is pre-determined for you, no 0ne asked anyone what race and where they like to take birth. Once worth is decided by his or her character and how they operate in the society ajnd not based on what choices they make in their personal life.

By the way wheneve I contact a provider I ask them whether they have any racial preferences, thus far no issues.


One more fact, I am neither white nor black.

Just my view on things. After 100 or so years we as humans still talking about some nebulous issue. Ignore, it will go away. Talk about it and it will stay around for ever.

Why would anyone want to spend time with someone who didnt want to spend time with them. I would not be insulted if this happened to me. Take your money somewhere else and quit being a whinny BITCH.