Ladies,  do you have a sixth sense when doing screenings?   Can you tell just in communications before meeting that a gentleman is in fact safe?   And if you do feel you have a sixth sense, is it reliable?

And gentlemen, not to leave you out.  Do you ever have a feeling just in communications that a, how do I say this,  a date session will be excellent?   Andif you get a negative vibe, do you back off?

Enquiring minds want to know.

important for the ladies, I think it's just as important for the gentlemen. I have learned that a good vibe always leads to good connections & dates with the particular lady. If there is any negativity or awkwardness.........I just pass.

IMHO -- the ladies & the gents should be selective when choosing new "friends".

Is a major indictator as to how a date may go. The signals you receive and key vibes often point to a session that is going to be what you are looking for. I have not to this point backed off from any booked date, however I can honestly say I should have saved the time and resources for a ATF.

That leaves slim pickins.

My Sixth Sense is DEF a part of my screening. If, at anytime during the screening process OR during any communications after screening, I get a bad "gut feeling", I call it off. I may lose out on a safe client, but I'd much rather NOT take the chance!

.....it's rare but i've been wrong before: thought a guy would be difficult and it might not be such a good session, he seemed like a hard scorer and because he'd seen no one over 120lbs lol and I was wondering wth he wanted with me but the session went great.

Another instance thought it'd be an easy-going fun date and the guy was kind of a snake & a douche and went out of his way to try overstay his welcome to get some extra free fun and wrote a "nice" review in spite when things didn't go his way.

I try to weigh how he reviews and he writes/"talks" in his reviews over anything else, references 2nd and communication with him last.

You said it girl!! I agree with you 100% on this one hott mamma!!

I do believe there is some gut instinct involved with the hobby.  Communication before the date does help provide an insight to how the date will go.  

I've had similar experiences. I still find it difficult to believe a man who only reviews women who weigh under 120 would want to see me, but I am proved wrong when we have a great time together. There are those who prefer only one body type, and others who like the variation. I agree about checking out reviews. How a person expresses himself in writing is an important factor to consider. You must be an analytical person who also goes by her gut feeling. That's how I am, and it's worked out well for me too.

Is great for safety as well as personality compatibility.
I don't date turds.. regardless of references

I can absolutely not provide any kind of romantic experience with someone who has an attitude problem, bad hygiene... etc... etc...

Some things you cannot find out ahead of time.
I recently had someone contact me and then get mad because I could not answer his emails fast enough.
Albeit, it was the 4th of July and I was with my mother.
Clearly his email was to be the priority of the century.
I told him because of his rushing me and poor attitude that I would not see him anyways.

The response was : F*ck you, you F*cking Wh*re"

Clearly, I saved myself from a headache and having to break kneecaps : )

Why thank you sweetheart!!

...is CONSTANTLY in the shop. That's why, in addition to reviews, references, and a bit of personal information, I always ALWAYS require a personal meeting. I usually ask him to meet me for lunch or a cup of coffee (pardon the pun).

I consider it an interview process for both me and the hobbyist. After the interview is over, either he or I can leave without further obligation. Also, it's a great opportunity to flirt......adds to the excitement of the evening!

Kisses,
Marie in Asheville NC

As the song says---"Maybe I saved another girl some trouble..." i.e., put him on a bad boy list to do just that with some other girl!  You ladies are wonderful treats and should be treated as such!! His attitude shows that he has no respect for any lady, and, like a 2 year old, he should not get dessert)

I Swear That Was An Accident

My computer guy cleaned out and updated my computer and I had to go back and re-enter names and passwords.

I wasn't trying to be dishonest

But I did enjoy your "ali-asses" comment......very clever!