Recently, I enjoyed a two-hour date with a touring provider who was visiting Raleigh.  We were having a great time, and when I noticed there were only about 10 minutes left until our time was up, I suggested that we start to finish up.  At that point, she said something along the lines of "Don't worry about it, just relax and have fun."  It was an evening date and she said that she didn't have anyone else booked after me.  I am normally very careful not to overstay my allotted time.  Anyway, we continued playing, and when we were done, she continued making conversation with me and invited me to take a shower.  It felt like she was in no hurry at all for me to go.  By the time I left, it was about 30 minutes past the time our date was supposed to end.

You acknowledged that your time was almost up. And you said you had already included a tip in the envelope beforehand. If she told you not to worry about the time then don't worry about the time. That's on her. She said she didn't have any one else scheduled after you and to just relax and enjoy. You shouldn't feel obligated to leave her extra money. It's a nice gesture of course. But personally if do that and tell someone not to worry about what time it is, I don't expect extra $. And would never want the client to feel pressured. If i wanted a few extra bucks I'd be all sweet and have the "would you like to extend the date" talk lol. If the provider tells you not to worry about the clock then don't. That simple.  

Since the gal in question tours she probally is just busy with working out the logistics of her next tour stop. Or she's made it home and is taking a few days doing "real life" things.  
To me it sounds like you're "date" went really well, the two of you got along well obviously and she enjoyed you're company. The only recommendation I would make is next time something like this happens with a gal that's all alone in a strange city is maybe be a gentleman and offer to take her to dinner. OTC of course if you two are getting along. No harm in asking ya both gotta eat anyways and no one likes to eat alone. Yeah someone may say that's taking advantage but it happens quite frequently.  Sometimes dates go over when both of ya have fun, one more reason I like outcall it takes that question out of the equation, the gal will leave when she's ready.  

I agree with the others, You were a gentleman and cannot see any fault. some girls are just slow to respond. Relax and enjoy life!

Thanks, Gabby!

You did your part, she made a conscious decision to go over the time and did not ask for anything extra.  
The way I see it is unless we discuss an additional donation I don't expect it. There has been times where we were wrapped up and went over time not even realizing it and my date adds more, I appreciate that, but, I don't expect it. When the time is talked about and I choose to stay longer without asking for more and my date adds more I always find myself wondering if he felt obligated to. I don't want anyone to feel any pressure. If I don't ask, don't worry.  

I give an okay as long as everything went as it should- I wasn't raped, robbed, shorted/ripped off completely, arrested, manhandled, generally disrespected, you get the idea lol.  Sometimes you meet and just don't have good mutual chemistry. But it's a YMMV situation and so not reason to not give a reference.  If she offered for you to stay longer you don't owe her jack. And therefore it's not a legit reason to not give you an okay. Seriously, move on. It's not worth driving yourself crazy over

You did nothing wrong at all IMO! And you may hear from her as others have said! You sound like a super considerate gentleman to me!

Thanks, Tylor (my feminine namesake, haha)

So I don't think that would be it. Especially not if she responded to the time as you said she did. As other have said, you brought it up. The time that is. She is a grown woman whomever she is. So if she does feel upset about that, she only has herself to blame without question. As far as the Okay and the no response. Who knows. Okays are usually quick but who knows exactly why you have not heard from her. Too many variables absent for you to know.  No one here can really help. Only speculate. Which won't help you! So just let it escape your mind! Exit Left! You did your part as a gent well! IMO and what others have said too it looks like.

You could always excuse yourself to the restroom one more time just before you leave and leave the donation (sans envelope) on the vanity next to the sink. I had a gentleman do that for me once and I thought it was a sweet gesture. She will most definitely be going in there after you leave to freshen up, so no worries that she wont see it.

I actually had a situation where a date went over, neither of us realized till we were done. I didnt say anything about an upcharge but my date wanted to. He actually had extra envelopes and he tried to discreatly start a fresh envelope with the new total amount. Ended up getting the envelopes confused and asking me for the one I ended up with back. It turned to a bit of a production and was no where near discreet in the end lol. I thought it was sweet, but really, by that time we don't have anything to worry about w each other, we know the money exists, its not the end of the world if its acknowledged. You can just put some cash under the envelope, or on the vanity in the bathroom, or the nightstand, anywhere she'll see it or that she will see you put it down. Ive had people hand it directly to me. Whatever your comfortable doing. I highly doubt she'll be upset that she saw you put money out in the open somewhere and would have preferred that you just didn't give her any extra so she didn't have to see that.  

maybe she just hasn't checked her emails yet for whatever reason.
Communication seems like it was clear from both of you and the tip before hand even tells a bigger story of the gentleman you are.
Relax no worries.

and don't really have anything to be concerned about.

Welcome to the world of "low volume" ladies.

You are a good writer, and very well said.
In fact, there are quite a few girls that will only take one date per day. In our case, EVERY girl is like that. So your view is dead on as far as I am concerned!

Here's what I wonder: Say it's the end of my time. We've had a really good physical session, and now I'm having a really nice time just talking and getting to know her better. She shows no sense that it's time for me to go. I'm aware that it is, but I wonder, maybe she's lonely here in this hotel room all by herself, and maybe she would just like to have some company for another 15 or 20 minutes. Or maybe she really needs me to leave so she can get on with whatever she needs to do.  

I was actually about to type about OTC being the ladies choice when I saw your post. Since I just would have been quoting you anyway it's good I saw yours first

Thanks so much for all of your feedback ... I hope that those reasons for not giving an OK that you listed are extremely rare - or that they never happen at all.  It blows my mind  anyone could possibly do something to hurt any provider ... you all deserve to be adored and treated with the same charm and class that you consistently show to us guys!

I was a bit worried when I saw your subject line and then very relieved when I read what you said!

Thanks to all of the kind responses to this post.  I thought some of you might like to know that I received a very nice email from the provider today ... she apologized for taking so long to get back to me, but she hadn't checked her email since she left Raleigh - just like a few of you had surmised.  She said some very kind things about our time together and she approved my P411 Okay.