I am getting some bizarre emails from "experienced hobbyists" who state they saw my review on this site.

They keep insisting on greek and they keep insisting on me driving 3-4 hrs to them even when I keep stating I am in charlotte and my review says I am outcall.  I have family, friends, college classes and a real job. I can't be handing out my phone to people who want me to lower my prices because they can give me a review that will send more people my way.

I have gotten so many emails from so many people that I am overwhelmed. If I saw everyone who emailed me, I would have to see 4-5 people a day. I can't do that. I am trying to at least respond to every email as a courtesy but this is taking time.

Look at it this way, it's better than no one calling or emailing you.

I get phone calls just like you describe. When someone calls me asking for explicit acts I'm not even polite enough to explain why I don't discuss it. I just hang up. You're wasting time answering emails like that bc they are either cops or idiots and not serious about seeing you anyway.

the guys will state they have been seeing escorts for years and they TRUST me.....they keep wanting facial photos and my real name.  

I went into this hobby 3 weeks looking for just 2 dates per month and have had 5 dates already.  I keep getting told that they are happy with me so time will tell if they become regulars.

sometimes I feel like quitting and just working for a service so that I don't have to think but then I become paranoid as many of these services will send you to anyone and I am an introvert. I could never be a bartender or stripper although charlotte has a gym that teaches pole dancing...I have heard.

Why would a real hobbyist want to know your real name or even care? You're new to this and the police particularly prey on who they perceive as naïve.  I have done this eight yrs and could tutor you on the finer points of cop like behavior. If a email or phone call asks for specific acts, demands to know where you are staying, has no references or gives fake ones, he's likely a cop. General rule: if it walks like a pig, talks like pig, and looks like a pig, it IS a pig.  LOL. You're also safer doing incalls only. Pm or email me. I can introduce you to Escort Safety 101.  Lol.

If its the cops emailing, she likely is better off...

Just hang in there and keep to your business plan. If your only looking for a couple regulars, you'll probably need 4 or 5 good guys, but you don't have to find them all in the first month. And as far as I'm concerned your real name is Laya and you are a princess.
bxb007

Hun, if they are not polite enough to keep it clean and discrete, you have no reason to even reply. A true hobbiest will treat you with RESPECT and will be a true GENTLEMAN in any correspondence with you.

If it is a rude or demanding email, block the sender or put it directly in junk mail. Don't even think about replying because you are just playing into some JERK's game.

I'm glad you are reaching out to this group. They are a great bunch of people and a fun bunch to chat with!

Sam