I've not been an incredibly avid hobbiest, but I've had my share of experiences both good and bad.

The only thing is, that I have this great fantasy of mine - it's not something gross, nasty, etc, but it would entail a bit of discussion beforehand.

The only problem is, that while the discussion is not overly graphic or anything, it does require one to discuss some 'business' beforehand. The fantasy doesn't work if I have to arrive and go over things.

Any ideas?

you how you would go about talking about your fantasy to you more privately.  Feel free to call me and ask me how you should go about discussing this with the provider you are interested in seeing for it.  Ok?

LL



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Most ladies (IMO) would want to verify you thru refs or an alternative way. Once you have passed screening then it would be more comfortable for the lady to discuss your fantasy. Each lady will have a different comfort level has far as what she's comfortable discusssing with you before meeting you, but I have a feeling that getting prescreened first will make a big difference.

xoxo,

Steph

Yo, well it occurs to me some provider said she was pregnant and lactating and come on over.

One hobbyist wrote one time I read here he wanted a brown shower.

We got anal, golden showers spunk spewing all over the place.

I had a friend tell me one time a provider he was visting once said she had this guy who just wanted her to smash peaches in his face.

My point is Jay, whatever you got to say or want you can pretty much spell it out right here in black and white.

If you choose that route then most likely any of the gals who would feel comfortable joining you in making your fantasy come true can have a chance to see what exactly they are getting into.

Then they can respond in the post OR they can pm you.

Guess I am just saying no need HERE of all places to be shy or coy, just spit it out and the interested providers will respond accordingly.

Ya feeling me? In other words just simply say what you want, you just might get it. On the other hand none of us here are Columbo or played him on TV.

Shifterp OUT!  ps  strongly recommending for all concerned you do not have any explicit talk or descriptions on a phone, land or cell. Just my two cents worth.

What she said.

And once a provider knows you are ok..safe...and not going to be any "trouble" she will probably be open to discussing things. I talk to gentlemen all the time about fantasties...what they want..need..etc AFTER they are screened.