I thought this would be a good topic for discussion for a few reasons. The poster submitted three threads probably because your lazy moderator didn't get them posted in a timely manner. I am currently spending most of my day laying by a pool but that's no excuse. TER pays me well ($0) to sit by the computer 24/7

Anyway...I chose to not post the thread when he named the provider. You are welcome to PM him for more info.

Lessons learned here?

Gents: Use a cell phone and NEVER let your SO have access to your phone. I know of a situation in Boston recently when a provider called a gent because he left something behind and the SO answered the phone. How far do you have your head up your a$$ to give your SO access to your hobby phone?

Ladies: Don't obsess over your reviews. If you're good at what you do have confidence in yourself. You're special! What do you care what one guy thinks?

Opinions?

thirsty

-- Modified on 7/8/2006 6:48:16 AM

Good advice!!

to keep your posting name to yourself, so that a provider doesnt know what name u post under on these escort boards. Although I do realize that a lot of gals might want to know your screen name so that they can see if you are legit or not. But like thirsty said.....only use cell phones, NEVER give out home number. Glad I am still single and dont have a lot of this to worry about. LOL

Thnaks.  you make some good points (although one of the ones with her name did get posted.)  I did an edit and I guess that one didnt make b/c it never came back.  I have gotten numerous requests for her name.  Although, I am even leary of that now. A couple that have asked, have no reviews.  I dont know if this would get back to her. I may just be over paranoid, but this lady really has me off balance.  

No head up my a$$ as I do use a cell phone for my activities.  Her first calls came thru on the cell.  The last call came in on the home # . I do not know how she got my home #.  I did not give out! All afternoon, I kept getting calls with no ID on them.  That is the scary part of this...  I have asked to get the # changed and I have taken steps at home.

That reference was for the guys with hobby phones who leave it around for their SOs to answer. (Although the guy I was referring to wanted to get caught as it turns out.)

thirsty

Gotcha,  I didnt think it was at me specifically, it is an understandable thing to say. (I have made my fair share of bonehead decisions!) I was just pointing out, I was taking steps to keep the calls separate.  I have had a lot tell me to get a prepaid just for the hobby only.  I will probably go that route, but I am taking some time away from the hobby.

going under the radar right now would be a pretty smart move.