Just curious here. How many of you have experienced sex with multiple partners outside of the hobby? I've certainly fantasized about it, and have been asked to participate, but have hesitated to take my desires from fantasy to reality. What about you?

Are you talking "total" numbers over time, or a threesome, etc.)  As for the former, I could rival the number seen by Critcas(sp?)however, that does not count, as we are talking during the "sexual revolution" of the 60s and 70s, when I was just knee high to a grasshopper)
I have tried several times to arrange a 3-some when I have seen both ladies and know that the session would be out of this world, however, it has always fallen through for some reason(

When you say mulitple partners, do you mean simultaniously,  as in group sex?

Oh silly me. Yes.

My favorite is MMFM.

I highly recommend you try it if it's something you really want.

After all, we don't always get the opportunity to
act out our fantasies.

Good luck

I'm still waiting for my first, but I have some ladies in mind, and have even talked with them about it. As wonderful as it sounds to have two ladies sharing you with each other, I would want to have them interested in each other as well as me. More like me sharing each one of them with the other. They would either have to be genuinely bi-sexual, or be very, very convincing to make it work.

I sort of  fibbed a bit. I have done MMF twice, but one of them was watching, not participating. It was very erotic for all parties involved. I like the idea of MMFM. One of these days, I may make enough real friends to make it happen. Thanks Kristy!

date, come to the Carolinas. I am absolutely certain that there are lots of ladies here who love to swing that way.

well cary i have, outside of this hobby im tring to start, Me and my ex were swingers, now i swing alone with old fwb, its wonderfull and amazing in the positions that can be created.

Nothing is better than 2 woman in 69 with each man on each side having sex while being 69ed, then switching, 1 doggies, 1 misc.

The only weird part was she came to me after 6 months of dating and was balling and confessed she also liked, and had been with other women during our dating.  The only other boyfriend she told dumped her an called her a freak.  I assured her it was a total turn on.  We were in our early 20's and she told me a 40 year old woman who was her first was coming this weekend and wanted to have a three way if I was interested, HELL YES!  We probably had 20 encounters with another girl joining us and all were just amazing.  Hell, she even picked a few up in bars and shared with me.  She eventually got hooked on coke and became a different person, otherwise I expect we would be married today.