Thank you for your reply and I too... hope to meet with you. And I agree with you that we will have plenty of interesting things to talk about and none of them will be about others.
Isn't discretion suppose to go both ways? Hobbyist are always so concerned about giving their personal information out to the provider they are trying to make an appt with. Always ending their request with...of course discretion is of the most importance!
How about the privacy and discretion of the Provider? I have clients on a regular basis telling me the personal information of other providers they have seen. I know their REAL names, their location, if they have kids, or if they have another job. And even further than that they might reveal their dislike of the other girl and their session with her. Isn't that what REVIEWS are for? I know a lot of hobbyist dont want to put reviews because they dont want any kind of paper trail....but for some reason feel the need to tell every provider they visit with a review of the session they had with other providers. Reviews are for other hobbyist....NOT other providers.
I think hobbyist would be appauled if they thought that a provider was telling another client his personal information that was suppose to be confidential. And would be even more appauled if she discussed their session and performance with another gentlemen.
EXample: Hey you know what....I saw " so and so" yesterday....he is a big wig lawyer at "so and so" what a horrible time we had together...his wife ( mary ) is going through cancer treatment.....he is devistated and because of all the stress and heartache..geesh he has E.D. I think it's from all the anti-depressants he is taking.
Can you imagine a provider saying that to another hobbyist? I am sure you cant!
So just a friendly reminder to hobbyist....PLEASE....respect the privacy and discretion of a provider by NEVER passing on any kind of information to another provider! Dont be a gossip....save it for the highschool girls!
I 100% agree with you Avery on your post. Discretion needs to be for ALL parties. Furthermore why would a guy want to discuss another provider when with you or any other provider? The session is to enjoy the comfort of each other; not use the time to discuss other people.
We have never met, and yes you are on my radar screen, and maybe we can meet before too long; but I can assure you when we meet we will only be discussing each other...besides I have enough flaws of my own to not be concerned about other people's...LOL.
Thank you for your reply and I too... hope to meet with you. And I agree with you that we will have plenty of interesting things to talk about and none of them will be about others.
Steph thank you for posting! I also wanted to add to the topic that hobbyist may think chatting to another provider is just harmless chit chat....when in fact he could be putting her in danger. There are some ladies that try to engage a hobbyist into discussions of others to do her harm....even under the false pretense that she is friends with the other provider.
So always a good rule of thumb to NEVER chat about another provider.
You know what, I have had a provider tell me something very similar to your example. It is a concern of mine what a provider will tell another hobbyist about me during their pillow talk. I hope I am never the subject of their conversation, but I know other hobbyist have been mentioned in conversation with me. Please please providers, keep our names confidential.
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