I need ya'lls thoughts on an issue.

For one, I posted on KatyMarie ad, saying how we are working doubles, TER erased it.... Then I seen Tonka Toy got some gorgeous new breasts, so I told her how great they look! I am now moderated!! So ladies, if you have anything NICE to say to another provider then this IS NOT allowed!! Apparently your not allowed to supoort another provider!! SMFH. Makes you realize why some providers always hate one another!  
 
There is so many women that hate on eachother, but god forbid you have a provider who likes to be nice... I am a pretty cool woman... I dont gossip, I dont partake with gossipers.. I am not a jelouse woman.. I SPEAK BAD OF NOONE AND I HURT NONE.. Its NOT my MO... I am a positive woman who has nothing but GOOD THINGS TO SAY on the boards and behind closed doors....  
 
Heres a note to the miserable men who do nothing but talk smack about providers:  
"If when your 'hobbying' your looking to be not pleased, then you shouldnt be hobbying"  
 
 
Samm

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I guess, but I dont understand why a double AD would get removed.  I see those all of the time.  Did you ask the admins about that particular issue?

It sounds like with the KatieMarie situation if you'd asked her via PM to answer her own post with a mention of you as her doubles partner there would have been no problem.  Instead, when you posted a mention of it yourself on her ad thread you broke that rule.  If a client had done the same thing, he'd have a problem, too.  I hope you can see it would be a bad idea to let other people post under an ad.  They would turn into shit storms.
Then you did the same thing on Tonka's ad.  It doesn't matter that you were complementary. You are permitted to be nice, just not there, so you broke the same rule twice, hence your moderation. It would have been nice of TER explained this to you.
And don't worry about being moderated.  I am and it's no big deal.  Check with them in a month and see if they'll unmoderated you.

and fun and sexy and one of the best.  TER has some different rules but we still love ya!

So you must have forgot. It was nice when the ladies could say nice things on each other's ad but the new rule really isn't even new anymore, as it's been this way for over a year now.

Unfortunately some ladies didn't like other ladies posting anything on their ads so the rule was put in place.

I'm betting if you asked nicely in a few weeks you may be unmoderated. Sorry it happened.

Steph xoxo

I'm glad I know now.

Sorry you had find out the hard way - by being moderated.  If that happened to me, I would feel like the punished kid standing in the corner for a time-out  

Like the other ladies said, I'm sure they will unmoderate you soon.

I didn't either. Not that it matters, but you would think TER would warn a person first. Funny fact, the first time I asked TER to be unmoderated they said, "Request denied. " I really didn't know why and figured I must have broken a rule that I wasn't aware of. I asked, "Can you tell me why, Please?" They came back in a couple of days and said, "You're already unmoderated. " WTF? I tried and sure enough there was no delay.

katyMarie was fully aware I mentioned our doubles under her thread, hence I had her permission!!  
Also Steph, it has nothing to do with 'forgetting'..  They never specified why my post were being removed.. They are usually pretty vague with their explanation and attach a link..  
Thx for the replys.. Yall rock!  

Sammy
 

Did they tell you that the next time is a spanking and they take your "toys" away?

Serena Sapphire posted onmy A compliment on my ad and someone reported it.
It's okay that guys post compliments but not ladies
If a lady posts a compliment, in my opinion it should stand on its own. A woman giving a true complimant imo to another is a breath of fresh air

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You sound like such a sweetie, Sammie, so I'm sorry if you feel punished by TER for really just saying nice things. But I do think you are more than welcome to compliment the ladies via PM/email/the PO board, etc. I get that a public forum also allows you to shill the lady providers you like, which is a pretty cool thing to do (way to go, girl!) but don't be deterred from your inherent friendliness by this one rule. Keep the compliments coming, just do so in a less rule-breaky way. I'm sure we all appreciate them!  

XOXO
B

TER''s policies and politics come off to be a little weird. It seems hard to grasp on what you can and cannot say on forums. If it's decided by TER that you're going to be moderated, they should handle the situation in a more professional manner. They should have at least given you a detailed explanation on why they decided to moderate you. Just kick that crap to the side and kick some dirt on it Sammy. You're a great woman to be around and something like this shouldn't be worth worrying about.

Sam.. I know how u feel...  I did a review of a provider a new girl awhile ago..   It was her first one.. Denied..    I just did a review of another provider,  Denied..   asked why they told me to fix this or that it was cuz of this or that..  So I did fix it..    Denied again.. LMAO..    
Then also, one night I was over at the lovely lady who I see regularly now and she asked about TER and her TER and so forth, so I opened up my laptop and showed her this site and the other site (I am a prominent member over there).   She wants accounts so she could chat and post and so forth..   So We created her the account which worked..  But she still can't claim her profile, She still can't post anywhere.  She is listed as a basic member but does not even have basic member privileges, and We have emailed tech support a few times w/ every address I could find and still haven't gotten any response...  So I do feel your pain.. LMAO....

I am almost positive that you are not allowed to create an account for someone while you are using your own PC...

The more experienced posters/ Ter Techies here can explain to you why she is not able to claim her profile.  

It all began with you "Opening your laptop" and "Creating her account"

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What!!!!

So to help a lady at her place, you need to use her equipment (LOL)

Sharing an IP address is a huge red flag for security reasons. It can indicate compromised logon credentials (think LE, jilted spouse, pimp, stalker, etc...). TER rightfully takes that very seriously - for all of our protection.

When two or more devices share a broadband connection (think wireless network), the modem/router assigns each device a "private IP address" - each device has it's own IP address inside the local network. However, when the devices communicate with other devices outside the local network, they appear to have the same public IP address. This process is called Natural Address Translation (NAT), and is one of the primary functions of your modem/router. Thus each device behind your router looks like the same device to TER.  

While you should NEVER, EVER share your login credentials (or try to learn anyone else's) or login to more than one account from the same device (don't risk login info being retained on someone else's device) two PCs can connect to TER from within the same local network without triggering alarms. Simply use VPN software on your devices to login. A VPN will assign a unique public IP address to the device(s). To verify this, simply google "what is my IP" before logging in to TER.  

Note that your IP address can pretty much identify who and where you are, your browsing habits - you name it. IMO, a VPN is an essential tool for remaining more anonymous (although nothing is perfectly anonymous on the inet).

This applies not only to computers but also smartphones, tablets, etc.; anything that connects to the internet.

There are literally dozens of VPN services and software available, many are free. I use Tor for both my PC and phone.  At this moment, my IP address indicates that I am logged in from an anonymous server in the UK, although in reality I am drinking coffee on my sofa in my living room.  

There is a lot more you can do to upgrade your security and anonymity online, but a VPN is step #1

I toured with GiaMoore a couple of years ago. We went to Naples, Tampa and Orlando.  I have a hot spot on my phone so when I use my laptop I'm using my own internet from my phone, NOT THE HOTEL'S WHICH I NEVER DO!  Since Gia was traveling with me and shared a 2 room place in all locations, I asked her not to the use the hotel internet and to use my hot spot to connect instead.  Subsequently, we were both moderated for doing this as it used the same IP address.

I explained this to TER but obviously they didn't give a flying F__k.

It's a very dangerous option to use the hotel internet without using a VPN as MasterZen has explained.

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I just had me a little fantasy moment while reading your post...



Steph

I thought this had been gone over some point last year... (or was it the year before?) A bunch of chicks acting crazy under others provider ads.... SMFH.

I know it sucks how one or two rotten apples can really spoil it all for the whole damn barrel!

So they slapped that rule up to prevent mods/Admin from having to spend precious time babysitting the ads.
Sucks, I know. Some chicks do have positive stuff to say, where positive things are to be found, no doubt, no hate at all.  
But, alas, rules are rules.  

It does strike me oddly, one would think, if you were part of an ad for doubles featuring two ladies, that both ladies linked/listed ought to be allowed to post upon said ad.

Food for thought- perhaps an amendment to the current rules is in order? creating a post on the Suggestions board would be a good step in that direction.
Let me know if you do post one, I will def second the idea.

I hope you are doing well & taking time to breathe.
I know you stay very busy.

~Foxy

 

 
 

The phone is where your HOT spot is

Thank you
2015 = 28

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