i was in maryland the last couple of days and had a weird experience with two girls from two different agencies. so weird that it got me to thinking and im trying to figure out if the problem is with me and i would appreciate any advice or input i could get.

so i call for the first girl to come to my room reputable agency ..higher than average rates for area but better quality also. girl comes to my room and once shes in and sees me she immediately thinks im a cop. i told her over and over again i wasnt....let her search the room...stripped for her and propositioned her to try to allay her fears. nothing worked...she left and wouldnt even take part of the fee i offered for her coming out.

so i call second agency...same thing...reputable...reviewed... girl comes out...comes in sees me and starts looking for reasons to leave. i did the same things to calm her down and it didnt work. just like the first girl this is basically what she told me.... they said  i didnt "look like a typical client". and since i was young and muscular with alot of tattoos i must be undercover.

as i thought about this the rest of the night it dawned on me that most of the girls ive seen have all been kinda uncomfortable and others have made comments about why would a guy like me be seeing providers.

so my question is ..ladies... is there anything a guy can do to put you more at ease? do any of you ever request or consider requesting pics from the guys you see? do you think that would help me if i sent a pic when i sent in my appt form? am i like the only guy who works  alot and stays on the road to much to have a real girlfriend so isee providers? i know this may sound dumb but its really got me vexed

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ok...thanks for the input

That has never happened to me. But I can relate somewhat. I am young and attractive (20y/o) so I have often been asked why I was seeing escorts, not in a mean way but in an interested way. I have a girlfriend, but I just like the excitement and the rush that seeing escorts gives me. I think some providers are thrown off by men who WANT to see escorts just for the fun of it opposed to those who see them because they NEED to because they don't have many other options.

I absolutely agree.......... i think alot of the girls come to the appt. expecting you to be old fat and creepy and are taken aback if you dont look like that or look like the average guy.... it seems like to me it would be easier for the girl if she could find him attractive. i think maybe the prob i had in maryland was because i was in a really upscale hotel and there had been a rash of stings in glen burnie a few weeks before.....idk