I was readng a couple of reviews and I saw quite a few times that a provider is not a true gfe. I guess its a matter of opinion but how o you guys determine that?

Just Curious

You might be concrete about it and say that DFK and BBBJ equals GFE. To me, GFE means the provider greets you like a lover who has been away and is REALLY glad to see you. I guess it boils down to a role play.

In my opinion GFE allows for a lot of kissing along with the other fun stuff (BBBJ, DATY, etc.).  It also involves conversation and cuddling afterwards while recovering.  It makes it feel more like a date and a romantic encounter rather than just showing up and banging the hell out of someone and walking out the door.  

I've visited a brother before in Nevada.  To me that was no where near a GFE experience and it felt uncomfortable.  The sex was fun, of course, but there was no connection and to me that helps to define GFE.

non GFE definition

Non GFE is commonly called a WIFE. There is no DFK, BBBJ, DATY, or any fun of any kind. She just takes your money and when it does happen it's ..... Get in ... Get off ,,,, Get out!!!

I sure did DAMN my typing sucks!  Thanks Ms Mocha for that correction...

GFE - means the provider gives me the feel that we're doing it for fun ...
So far there's a very few true GFE

- One provider really drilled her tongue inside my mouth and suck my tongue too.
-  Another provider allowed unlimited pops - I did 3 pops in an hour and almost did a 4th.
   Only 2 providers allowed a 3rd pop in an hour.
-  BBBJ and DATY are givens.  Providers who say 'no' to these are not true GFE.  
-  CIM - I remember provider kept on going and didn't stop until she sucked me dry.
           Didn't even request it - so felt very GFE.  Others would ave removed it.
 

Great Feedback

I love the different perceptions.

Re: I think a lot feel greek more pornstar then GFE EOM

It is more PSE exp. than GFE...I've never had anyone come into an GFE appt expecting greek.

That's pretty much what I said lol (that greek is not part of GFE and I dunno who would consider Greek part of a "normal" GFE session).

Re: Great Feedback

Its all about what it takes to make the guy feel like its more than just a physical (attitude and atmosphere). In my opinion, the way you cater to guys definitely qualifies you as GFE.

Re: Great Feedback

You are such a gentlemen....my very FIRST TRUE Gentlemen

If the WFE were available. it would likely fall into the BDSM community section!

There are TON of providers. That say they are GFE. That aren't. You can blow this of or cover your ass with people have different perceptions. But, in the end is just self motivated BS.

Any normal male individual is gonna expect certain things with GFE. Such as DFK/LFK. The atmosphere and attitude of pleasing and being emphatic towards what the client wants. Such as lingerie requests if that is option.

Now, you also have to understand things from the providers perspective. When, i have discussed this publicly and privately.  I was made aware that not all men come freshly showered or even have the decency to seek out the use of the bathroom to shower up. Or do something else to put off the provider. Such as basic oral hygiene or have an offensive odor. You can't expect a provider to get turned on. If you don't at least clean yourself up to decent standard.

I've championed this cause before. But, simply put. Its buyer beware.  That is part o the Glory that is TER. If you are a VIP member. You will know straight away. What is offered and what is not offered as far as GFE. If you are foolish enough to go on back page . . .  you get what you pay for. So, don't be surprised if you aren't happy with the outcome. Be it another review site. What ever the means are that you are making you informed choice from. Don't be a dumb ass and seeing a woman's ad and it reads something like Greatest GFE ever. If there isn't a single review to support said Ultimate GFE.