After a brief search to verify whether or not this topic has been addressed, I found nothing, so please let me know if this is a redundant post...
I know after spending some incredible quality time with a few very, very lovely ladies, I find that while they always aim to please to the very highest caliber level of service, oftentimes I find myself wondering if I really am "the man" when it comes to DATY...Certainly our quality time is mostly fantasy play, so I leave it at that. MY question is: Do any of you lovely ladies offer DATY coaching?? Has this subject been brought up to any of you by clients? By coaching, I mean: Offering a regular session, but focus on critical and vocal emphasis in the realm of understanding how to truly pleasure a woman in that dept...what really works: fingers? tongue? location? etc...Would you be able to stop a client and point him/her in the right direction? Obviously the end result is immediate pleasure for you as well as a much better understanding for the client of how to truly pleasure a partner... I feel this would result in more pleasure all around for hobbyists as there would be less "pseudo-orgasms" and more "O-my-Gawd" moments shared....and we all know we want more of that... ~Bruce
Man this is a tough one because each lady is different on what they like, or more importantly, what they don't like. I think each session would be different and the tough part would be culling out "what works" for most. I think this would be a tough subject.
Good luck with your quest and please let us know how it turns out
No two buffet's are the same, you just have to figure it out as you go. I just keep trying till they tell me they want to take me home or grab my ears.....
And, yes, I understand there are differences...I just want to find that commonality for improved response from my hobby partner...probably because I find more satisfaction from pleasuring her which in turn makes it more intense for myself...
I think I could be a good coach for you. Many guys share this interest and I think I may start advertising as a Daty coach. I am based in Raleigh and would love to meet
Oh come on! If this isn't a great research opportunity, I've never seen one. Can you think of anything worth the effort (and more fun) more than this? I volunteer to be on the research team.
Probably tied for my #1 favorite thing during a session...
Lick the alphabet until you figure out the idiosyncrasies of each lady who are vastly different in my experience. Always drop in a test finger. Some like, some don't, some go crazy (good and bad so be careful lol).
Ok, this is one of the things I have often wondered about... Does "licking" out the alphabet truly do anything? Or is this just a good way to wear out your tongues muscles?
After some gentle warm up, lightly suck on the entire clit while applying light pressure to the mound of Venus with your upper lip. Increase the pressure as she nears orgasm. Works for me 75% of the time. Of course all women are different but it seems this is a technique most enjoy.
All jokes aside, if any of my lovers are doing a horrible job- I usually make practice of coaching/guiding/coaxing my men into doing what I like. Wouldn't it be to my own loss as me being on the receiving end, of said such lacking of skills? But if a man wanted coaching- hey that's fine too! ) But I do also agree with the comments I read- not all women are exactly alike. However, there's only so many types of women, and so many spots to hit, if you know what I mean! Come here baby, I'll show you right where I like it! LOL!!!
i don't believe I have applied heavy pressure in the past as I try to not have my partner feel like I am about to chomp down on her... but I will try and apply a little light pressure next time...
...does the sucking involve light teeth play? if so, would sucking without letting the teeth touch keep your vibe going? Thanks for the feedback.... ...By the way, you are one hot lady~!
Yeah that one would probably do it for me. Maybe lol I like the sucking... I guess licking doesn't do but so much but warm up LOL
What gets me, is men who lick up and around and back down the other side.... Labia majora. Seriously? And then try to "fuck me with their tongue".... This not only is not a turn on, but makes me sit-up and the old inner monologue goes, "WTF is he doing?!??" And I lose "that magic feeling" THAT QUICK. Just stay on the clit, and if you want extra points, try to get some finger action on my g-spot. LOL I think the key to most women though is just to pay attention. Hopefully she isn't the blow-up-doll no reaction type.
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