I will be traveling to Charlotte in 2 weeks and besides hobbying Id also like to find some night clubs with dancing where 40 and over aged women might hang out.

Any suggestions???

I cant get pms or emails so if you could respond here That would be fantastic!

Thanks for any help.

Do you know where you will be staying,  what part of town?

the ramada by the airport where O'hares is.  But they seem to br dead these days.

I will have wheels so anyplace fun will work.

I am staying at the Ramada Inn near the airport, but I will have wheels so anywhere in the Charlotte area is fine.

Ohares is at the Hotel where I stay but it has been pretty dead there the last few times.

One more thing. When I say dancing I don't mean gentlemens clubs.

If all the sudden I have posted this 3 or more times its because its not showing up on my screen.

I will be staying at the Ramada Inn on Woodlawn where Ohare's is.  That place has been pretty dead the last few times I have been there.

I will have a rental car so I am mobile. So anywhere in the Charlotte area is fine.

Also when I say dancing I mean I would want to dance with a woman and not a strip club.  At 50 I would feel akward watching girls my daughters age dance around.  I find older woman more attractive to me.

Anyway I hope it works this time!

It depends a lot on what area you are staying in, too. If you're staying uptown, you'll probably want to check out the Epicentre. There are some nice bars/lounges/restaurants there. Howl at the Moon is a piano bar there that often has a 35+ crowd. But as far as actual nightclubs, most places cater to the 18/21+ crowd. Suite, followed by Forum and Bar Charlotte are the most popular nightclubs uptown. There are some great restaurants, with a more mature after work crowd at the bar. The Breakfast Club and Sunset Club, both of which are near uptown, are known to often have a more mature crowd.

If you're staying in the Ballentyne area, Villa Antonios is fun, and often has a really good mixed crowd. Also Cosmos Cafe, which is new there. Fox and Hound and Hickory Tavern are fun as well. There is a small martini bar in that area called On The Roxx that I really like.

Southpark has some amazing places as well. Pretty much centered around Southpark Mall. I dont hang out in that area much, so I don't have any specific suggestions.

Look around online, and you can find some good suggestions, I'm sure, as well as from other people. The ones I gave are just from my own experience.

I'm starting to think I spend too much time out and about! Sigh...

carolinanightlife.com
lazyday.com
704area.com/nightlife/
www.10best.com/Charlotte,NC/Nightlife/Best_Nightlife/

Gabby you are always so considerate.  She nailed it.  If you have the option and I would try to stay downtown.  You can walk to alot activites perfect for our age.  I often stay at holiday inn so I cant get in trouble driving.  There are so many options you will have lots of fun.  Very safe too, unlike were you are currently planning to stay.

isn't Scarlet O'Haras at the Holiday in on Woodlawn?
I used to be a bartender there (a million yrs ago..lol) Was busy back then Loved working there.
I have been in Mass for 16yrs now and I miss the Carolinas...

Thanks for all the help!!  I'm looking forward to visiting and hope I can find some fun women to dance and talk with!