Just curious, did you research her reviews or did you just take a chance? If the latter is true, always google her # for relevant info before you book an appt. and that should minimize any disappointment.

Simone

I understand your frustration, this has happened to me several times, as well as everybody on the board. Sometimes shit happens. As one provider once told me "we have lives too". I have been on my way to see a provider, when I get an unexpected call from work, or trouble at home, and just cant make it, they understood. So I try and cut them the same slack. The ladies of quality will always show through the BS.

I had a regular - young and not very reliable at times. So, I tell her I won't drive to her unless I got her hotel and room number already.

If you're seeing someone for the first time. The reason could be anything.

1) double booking - someone got to her hotel door first. Some desperate providers do this. This is the worst reason.

2) cold feet - maybe she thinks it's an LE bust or did not like your tone or voice. Some providers are selective of clients and girls can change their mind the last minute.

3) car troubles - I had a provider who arrived and her front bumpers banged up. She asked for a tip for new tires.

4) boyfriend - her boyfriend showed up and he does not know she fucks around.  I had set an appointment with a provider who gave me her hotel room and when I arrived her boyfriend was there. And they left. Luckily, she had a roommate who I banged and doggied for the same rate.

5) sick - had emailed a provider to meet the following day. When I called, she didn't answer. Emailed her at night - she said she was sick and not feeling well, so she shut off her phone.

6) Menstrual period - we've heard that before. I tell her I can do it. She says "that's gross".

7) Not in the mood? - Ok some younger providers are 'not in the mood' and are not in control of their emotions. Maybe they saved you the trouble of a bad session. It stinks but not every provider is in the mood for a fuck at all times. Last week, I had a girl with the opposite line "I was waiting for all all day."

8) Bad Cellphone ? - happens too. She text and said 'couldn't get through, my cellphone got wet'.

That's very kind of you bouinage. If we've never met, I have been known to cancel last minute if the guy spooked me in some way. Anything out of the norm, and I am running full tilt the other way. You never know what's waiting on the other side of that door, and that goes for both provider and hobbyist.

I have had hobbyists get nervous and cancel on me last minute too. As you say, we all have lives, and I would add that we all have different personalities and priorities that determine what we do. I forgive once or twice, but not a third time.

Lickspussyclean has pretty much the entire laundry list, but he forgot one, and I am guilty of it only once... I forgot the city the gentleman was in and so I was in a completely different city than where I was supposed to be.  I was furious but thankfully the gentleman understood.  Just remember that you never know.  You may end up not having your evening with the provider you chose, but if she is anything like me, she will more than make it up to you.

You probably don't recognize me w/ my alias. We have a common friend - L.S. and we have emailed each other. Can I PM you here? Or you can't receive PMs?