Ladies:

Please tell us "why" so many ladies who post on the BP appear to lie about their true ages.

In many cases, their pictures tell a different story. Many of these allegedly ""23" or "25"
year olds appear to be much older. Seems the ladies like to subtract about 10 years or
so from their true ages.

This is SO un-necessary! There is glamour and charm in knowing that a lady has a little
bit of age on her. It also suggests maturity and experience, and further suggests that a
good time may be had with an older woman.

As an older man, I (for one) am more likely to be attracted to an older lady than a
very, very young one, due largely because I know an older lady knows what she is doing
and what a man wants and expects.

So, if you are really 35 or 40, please say so! No harm. You are still beautiful and
just as desirable

They call it "hooker math" and it's not something that the male mind can comprehend. I agree on the age thing and I "usually" avoid the young providers, but I've seen several that have been 29 for years. Finding a 40 year old is about as easy as finding a unicorn, however, 39 year olds are very common, but they are usually in their 40's or early 50's.

 

Replying back to the previous poster regarding "hooker math". I would tend to agree.
Likewise, I would likely pass over any of the really younger ones, as my personal
preferance is for an older woman who'se been around the proverbial block a few times.

When I say "older" I mean 40 and over, as I am not a youngster myself anymore.
Too often, one sees ladies passing themselves off as "26", or "33", but when you enlarge
the pictures, you can really see their "ages" are way off the mark. Men aren't stupid;
I think most of us (especially the older guys), know what to look for. As a consequence,
we tend to work TER and BP looking specifically for the older gals in the hopes of finding
what we seek. So, ladies, if you are an older chick, don't hide that fact. Advertise it!
There IS a demand for you.....and there is NO shame in being an older provider.

Older women are likely to be less rushed, much more patient, and in many cases, friendlier
than some of the younger ladies. In the same vein, "age" tends to be "relative" between
a couple, more so if one decides to become a "regular" with the same lady over several
encounters, and even more so if a man (client) is seeking a bit more to hang out with.
I would qualify that last statement by saying that I do not care to have a whole flock of
ladies to visit; rather, I would prefer one "steady", or "regular" one that I can come and
see every so often.

Just my thoughts folks......(all positive feedback welcomed; love your thoughts and
opinions).

Hi SweetMelissa:

Thank you for your thoughts and comments.

No, I am not a rare bird here. Just a realist I guess. I have been around a few years,
so have some knowledge and experience of my own to share.....

Actually, the idea that when a lady reaches a certain age she should be out of the "business"
is utter nonsense I think. There is room for lots of older ladies here....and the more, the merrier  
for us older men. Don't get me wrong. We like the young ladies just as much, but the discussion  
itself is about misrepresenting "age" in the posts by the ladies. Also....all the make-up that some
of these ladies are wearing in the posts cannot hide the fact that many appear older than their
stated ages in their ads.  

Much among the ladies has to do with female "vanity" I think. They want to be "forever young"
and attractive. Understandable. But, there is such a thing as "natural beauty" too in a woman.

Unfortunately, age eventually catches up to us all. You are what you are, and age can only
be hidden for so long. Actually, age and graceful maturing make the encounters much more
fulfilling, since the age factor also works on the man's (client) mindset. An older man is
more likely to feel "comfortable" with a lady closer to his own age, rather than with a (young) lady
who is many years his junior. Of course, if its' only about sex and money (as it often is), I guess
it doesn't really matter, especially if the encounters are short, and the visit is only a one-time affair (no repeats).

The idea among the ladies suggests that if they are older, they feel that they are not attractive to most men. Hardly the case. Older ladies are just as attractive as the younger ones. It depends of course,
on the man who is looking. The old saying "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" still applies even among the escorts and courtesans. This applies equally to older as well as younger men. Many older men prefer older ladies, and lots of younger men also prefer older women. (Many men also prefer BBWs, unshaved, natural women, and the like).

So, don't be afraid to state your correct age. We would like to know.....as it will help in  
deciding who we pick for a companion.......(and who we will avoid)

You PRAY in a church
However, if it's a Catholic Church
And you're an alter boy - be very careful
Because you may be easy
PREY for priests.

Disclaimer: This was satire and not meant to offend any particular denomination, however, I'm an Atheist so PRAYING to your  imaginary friend for my sudden death will be a total waste of time. Bless you all.  -- Modified on 2/7/2015 11:42:45 PM

ere is some more logic from another hobbyist friend:
Nobody is getting any younger and most guys are trying to reclaim/re-experience their youth
Logically those guys will set their sights on a younger (or at least younger looking) date

 

I for one don't care for these generalizations that older ladies are "less rushed" and feel it is quite offensive. There are to be certain ladies of every age who will rush, hustle and scoot you on your way after a pop. It's the quality and ethics of the individual not the age.

"See YA there" would have been funnier. Well, for everyone, but the bible thumper. Like the good book says, "haters gonna hate"

I agree. I specifically look for the older providers.

idea if I would be attractive to the gentlemen who seek out pay-for-play arrangements. I mean, 40??? Wouldn't that qualify me as a grandmother compared to the Playboy bunny types I saw on the escort malls?

I did know that I had a thriving fan club on the swing scene in FL... so I had something that guys liked.  

Long story short-- at 51 now, my second "career" as Tabu has afforded me wonderful friendships, exciting journeys in sexuality, and a chance to practice the qualities I strive for... empathy, intuition, perspective and humanity.

I consider my maturity to be pure gold. I've worked for everything I've achieved, and I'm proud to be who I am.  

There's a place for everyone in this parallel universe. It's just nice that some of you fellows appreciate a lady with seasoning.

kisses,

Tabu

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And I can relate to everything in your post except I was never in the swinger scene and I am not 51
I  am very thankful and appreciative of every gift and gentleman I have met and I'm ready for more!
Xo

but NEVER criticize a woman for being old or fat. The PC Police will come out in droves to run you out of town on a rail if you do so. It's even worse if a man expresses the opinion that he is not turned on by, and is actually repulsed by "old fat broads" that will get a man labeled as a misogynist every single time.

For the record, while it is apparent that "most" of the guys over fifty seem to like the older, and slightly rounder, full bodied women here, there are at least a few of us that still prefer the young hardbodies, and not all of us feel rushed by them. Actually the younger ladies are more likely to enjoy a full hour of actual intercourse without getting sore or dry than an "old broad" of course that too is just a generality, unfortunately very few women of any age really seem to enjoy anthing more than about twenty minutes at a time of actual fucking.

I mean it should be believable. I look at some photos posted here and on their websites and think WTF, they are at least two age brackets too young! If they catch shit for it, oh well, move it up honey! The hands and neck on a woman will tell us the real story.

and certainly not talking about hookers that have three personalities and stay 39 forever. lol

And just for posting what I just did about an "older" provider is likely to get me shit from people that will use it as "proof" that I hate women, but let's say I told Goldie that she was too young for me, or too skinny. or even that because of her age she was likely to rush me out the door. All that would probably be ok with the PC Police.

That's was what I was agreeing with Goldie about, it seems to be just fine for an old broad, or an old guy to complain about those "young barbies that just don't get it" but everyone freaks out when some uber sensitive member of the OTHFBC takes offense to a harmless comment.

One of the best aspects of this hobby has been the opportunity to date women of all ages. The variety has been wonderful in and of itself. Some have been older and more experienced, and perhaps on average a little easier to talk to because they are closer to my own age but still young enough to be my daughter. Some have been younger, and therefore more nubile and more like the girls I could never date in college because they were way too pretty, and these days are young enough to be my granddaughter. All have been a hell of a lot of fun to be with, and to make love to.  

It's honestly really difficult to say which is better. Both offer a lot, and I appreciate them all.

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... so they lie about being younger. But i've seen the opposite of 35+ ladies (especially 40+) being in very high demand with fairly premium rates, sometimes it seems even more so than those well under 30 (where I am). Lol sometimes I wish I could fudge being much older.  I'm probably going to look mid-20's until i'm pushing 40 though. My folks tend to age extremely well and I don't smoke, don't do any drugs, barely drink any booze, drink lots of water and take care of my skin. And i'm black (I said it) and damnit if there's a stereotype I do enjoy claiming is "black don't crack". Yay melanin!

-- Modified on 2/8/2015 11:07:21 PM

I saw a girl who became my ATF.. I'm 65.. We became friends.. after a while.. she started calling me for a cup of coffee.. and so on.. I will never forget it.. She advertised that she was 25.. She said her Birthday was coming up.. I told her I should take her to dinner.. she then let it slip that her Birthday coming up . was HER 21ST BIRTHDAY.. !!! yikes.. I had been cooonoodling with a 20 year old for the last 6-7 months.. By that time we were pretty close and it would have been absurd to walk away. but it does bother me.. That's way too young.. yes age IS just a number.. but that age told me that she was too young to understand what she was getting herself into.. 20 is almost a teenager.. 25 is someone who has had a while to think a bit about choices..  ( I guess)

And I actually I 'look' for more mature ladies.  And you are right older ladies are just as sexy and desirable.  For me even more so.  

You hit the nail right on the head! My sentiments exactly. Pictures don't always lie.

 

...is between 29 and 30. It's in the manual!

I am very proud of you. Last night I went to see a friend, All I ask for was a few beers, a pack of smokes and a tank of gas. We cuddled in his freezing trailer.  We had the best time, we watched 2 hours of TV..........rubbed each others, back, got naked, fell asleep in each others arms and woke upon 6am in the morning. Did not make much money, yet, had a wonderful time and went to the grocery store and bought enough food for my felines, ate a pound of shrimp and some divine Greek salad.  
Sure did beat sitting at home by myself............Kelley

-- Modified on 2/13/2015 10:49:04 AM

Would you kick them out of bed? Is this in your manual also............Poor, poor pitiful thing. Kelley