I had 100% no shows in the last 16 hours.  What's up with that?  

I wouldn't have to rely on BP if the clients would actually leave reviews.  I have several repeat clients.  Not one of them will leave a review.  They are all "scared."  I have offered discounts to anyone who leaves a review - still nothing.

So in the meantime I have to rely on BP because I don't qualify for these better sites to really be out there advertising.

I've had 2 reviews left since Thanksgiving.  Yet I have several steady clients.  What is the secret to getting someone to leave a freaking review?  It's not hat hard.

Well, let me clarify - I've had 3 reviews left.  One deleted his account the next morning when he woke up and had a welcome message in his email from here.  He wigged out when I asked him if he considered getting another email account just for this sort of thing.  Anyway - I lost that review when he deleted his account.  Not fair to the providers that we lose reviews because someone leaves the site.  If they thought about it hard enough there would be a better way to handle that.

UGH - how do you ladies get men to leave reviews?

I am not a lady but thought if it was ok I would leave you my opinion.

Size doesn't matter!

I am generalizing, there are always exceptions but you have any idea how many fellas
are overly concerned about the size of their weiners?

Truth is to most women it is not that big a deal. Now too big and too small present problems yes but average is quite adequate. For most, always exceptions. Dudes with Big Johnsons are WAY overestimating their value! Mostly impressive looking I guess, but just kinda hurts more than pleases. What is really cool is a slight curve that fits right in and hits their g-spot when humping like wild animals! Yeah that is the ticket! Why do you think those Wabbit vibrators are shaped like that anyways, DUH! Think hygine is much more important than a fella having a dong as big as Mr Ed for goodness sakes!

Boobs, same thing. Guys are not really concerned about size. Huge is too much and flat not enough ok, but average is just fine. Proportional is where its at! Plus really sensitive. I dated a gal for a long time who would cum just from me playing around with her boobies! That is/was WAY better than just fricking big!

What I am getting at is I am not exactly sure what you feel like a ton more reviews will do for you? You can have too many in my opinion.

It is what IS IN the reviews that you have that will help fellas decide if they want some of your time and companionship.

If you got three reviews that compliment you greatly it is better than having 100 that say time with you was so-so or worse.

I betcha there are a TON of gals that wish they could have a bunch of their reviews taken off TER.

Do not know if you are new to the hobby or not but my suggestion is just concentrate on what you can do......when a fella walks in the door dazzle him with your wiley feminine ways. If you do that the reviews will follow.

If you say to yourself when said Dude is walking in, "I am gonna lay it on you so good you are gonna be wanting to smack your Momma"! You go into it with that swirling around in your head and everything should work out just fine.

Just doing all I can everyday in everyway to help everyone understand size doesn't matter!!!!!!!!!To most, in my humble yet highly edumacated opinion!

I Concur!

Shifterp OUT!

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3 reviews... All good... Short time span.... Don't know what your lookin  for.  Stop bitchin

Reviews matter a lot in this business.  I cannot get the credientials I need from the reputable review sites without the reviews.  

I do wow them, which is why they come back again and again and even a few that recommend me to others.  That is not an issue.  No, I'm not all things to all men.  But I would think my repeat client numbers represent my ability.

OMG!!!  When did I bitch?  I was merely asking for guidance.  Isn't what these forums are for?  As questions, get answers?  

Geesh - thanks a lot for making me feel welcome.

must have made you forget how to relate to people.  I'm sure you thought your response was witty and clever and would make you lots of browny points.  

I don't think it did.

Ok in that case with the gents you feel repeat ask them to help you out.
If they hesitate explain why it is important to you. Then that is pretty much all you can do.

No body knows how much reviews mean than me. I have used to to my delightful
benefit for many years. Horray reviews.

I am sure soon enough you will have all the reviews you need.

Don't worry about being all things to all men, no woman is.

Good luck.

Shifterp OUT

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Hey Will

Sounds like the lady was just looking for some help ease up there cowboy.

Be nice.

Shifterp OUT!

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If you're in Charlotte (or anywhere in NC or SC), update your profile to show "Carolinas" as your location.  Right now it says "Other."  If you change it to Carolinas you will show up in the search results when a potential client searches here on TER.  

Getting the reviews can be tough at first - it's a vicious cycle:  many reviewers won't see un-reviewed girls, and girls can't get reviews if they're not seen by reviewers.  But 3 is a good start, and once the ball gets rolling, they'll keep coming.

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Thank you - I specifically remember choosing Carolinas, because I was disappointed it wasn't broken down to the larger cities in the Carolinas.  I have no clue how I ended up in "other."  Thank you for noticing that!!  I will fix that right away.

LOL - I don't have the energy to be all things to all men.  I offer a true GFE experience and that's about it with a couple of extras thrown in.  I have told potential clients straight out when they ask for something I'm not comfortable with, "you will be wasting your money with me.  I'm not comfortable doing that and it will show."

I tell them I need the reviews to get off of BP to be in a safer environment.  Which is true.  I offer discounts for reviews left - good or bad.  The truth doesn't scare me.  

Sounds like I'm doing all I can do.  ;-P

Thanks!!

I read your post and I dont fully understand that they are all scared?  Scared of what?   I personally will leave a review if the lady says its ok to do so.   I have had 20 percent that do not want a review and if the session wasnt bad I dont feel the need to do one.  The reviews are a lot of work and I dont need 15 days.  

I am not sure there is a "secret",  to getting a review.  Some fellas like to do them others do not. I dont review for a discount.  Cause then I would feel obliged and cant be honest about the whole experience.  

Coming here to the board does put you in the crosshairs of a few reviewers that I respect.  You do have 3 reviews this year thus far and that is great. You do NOT want too many reviews in a month, and that is my humble opinion.  You dont want to look too busy. You just want to look good.

Also, Natasha is correct, you dont show up in my searches, yet you would be a top possibilty if it said Carolinas.   I am sorry but I didnt know about you before this post.  Mainly because I do rely on searches a lot of the time.  You do have a good website but it also doesnt mention your home base but I did find the area code on the contact page.  

Just my 2 cents, and welcome to the board.

Your 2 cents counts.  Thank you!!  I will add the location on my website.  That was a "duh!!" for me.  The obvious slipped right by me.

Hello I also am like Roadshow I have saw your ads on BP but could not find your reviews so did not make the call to visit. Looks like you have corrected that because you now show up in the reviews for the carolina's. I see that you visit Greenville hope we can meet on your next visit. Hope my 2 cents help and they are right 3 reviews are a great start for 2 months. Do not rush it to much .  See Ya

And Hit you have written a review or 2 lol.