So if I am one of those cheap non-paying members here and I get a notification of a Private message from Support @ TER...am I just out of luck in terms of reading it, or knowing what it says. Seems a non-VIP member can get mail, but not read it, which sort of defeats the purpose. Sort of like if the mailman comes to my house, leaves a letter, with a note attached says "do not open till Christmas - 2098 !"....

Not that it is that big a deal, most likely the mail just is an invite to become a VIP member, but I would hate to miss a kiss from one the lovely ladies here..

You probably got real mail.  I dont think it's TER invites.  But it is an effective marketing device cause you are dieing to know who its from.  It could be some very beautiful sexy lady that just wants to tell you what a wonderful guy you are and making you an offer you cant refuse. Or it could be some old cogger passing along some freindly advice.  But if you write a review you do get 15 days free. But I would assume it was someone in the Art Gallery Thread close to where you posted.  

But sir you are wise to post and let everyone know that you are not ignoring them.  I didnt PM you do you got a couple more possibilities.

Thanks, I know that on some of the "dating" sites, they will never let you get any sort of private mail, ofr what I suppose are pretty obvious reasons (i.e. they need the cash !)...  I have had a vip membership in the past for a limited time after I posted a review, but it was quite a while back.

Also, it may simply be that I posted something here in the Carolinas board, and clicked the little box that says "private message me on response"..and that generated a mail to me. Seems to be the most likely scenario now that I think about it. And as much as I would hope that there are some ladies lining up to say how cute I am and offer me a special something I cannot refuse, I doubt that is the case...or else I had too much eggnog over the holidays !

Thanks for the input. I have been enjoying the postings here as I have been reading the past several weeks....oops..I think I am addicted !

I looked at the thread.  And putting on my Sherlock Holmes hat (without the pipe)  I would say its elementary my dear Watson,  it is quite obvious it was one of 2 persons.  One being a very sexy Blonde with legs that go all the way up and make a simply adorable tush and the other being a bloke that is of  questionable characte (no offense to the bloke).  I would presume that is was the lady with the feathers and email her and inquire if it was in fact she.  If not well no harm done.  

If I am incorrect I will profusely apologize. lol

lol  well, let's hope it was the feathered lady..or me replying to myself..!

and yes, the legs that go along with the feathers look amazing.

Good luck..

Posted By: brwneyedguy

So if I am one of those cheap non-paying members here and I get a notification of a Private message from Support @ TER...am I just out of luck in terms of reading it, or knowing what it says. Seems a non-VIP member can get mail, but not read it, which sort of defeats the purpose. Sort of like if the mailman comes to my house, leaves a letter, with a note attached says "do not open till Christmas - 2098 !"....

Not that it is that big a deal, most likely the mail just is an invite to become a VIP member, but I would hate to miss a kiss from one the lovely ladies here..