Where is the busty woman sitting at a bar wearing plunging blouse/unbuttoned shirt, tight skirt/shiny leggings, stiletto heels smoking a long cigarette.  She sees happy to see me.  We talk, we leave, and she drains me.

Why doesn't anyone like public hot-ness?  

Too much to ask?

I have been seeing a lot of exceptionally hot women around.  The last two weeks in DC & VA have had some amazing scenery.

I know I love to feel my best and dressing "to kill"

However, depending on my day and where I am, I may tone down a bit or alot or even dress to blend in because being attractive can cause problems like:

1. Car accidents (break neck syndrome hehe)
2. Unwanted attention from unknown individual or even more scary, groups
3. Being glared at by other women because their man can take his eyes off me (even to the point of being witness to a domestic battery when she slaps him across the chops)
4. Affecting my own comfort level because of these things.
5. Running into someone I know (in my town or damm if it's not a small world) thinking, why is she dressed like THAT?

It is a very daring woman who dresses to kill, walks into a place (club, bar, hotel lobby, etc) alone. There are so many variables and ya cain't run too fast in 5" stilettos! (make love not war) lmao

Now if I know the person I'm going to meet and I feel like I'll be protected, I can dress to impress and have ya thinking of sex the whole time out in public...and then "We talk, we leave, and she drains me." can happen, no problemo

I don't know what else to tell ya. If I've got places to go and/or am on my own time, sometimes, it's not worth the hassle...Dressing "slutty" is more problems than it's worth

Does this help?

xxx
Jinni

Some people are turned on by being secretive.

Hey Jenni,  I would love to make you feel safe.  Unfortunately I din't get to FL very often.

the Carolinas are about 4 hrs away, so I might be playing in your backyard sometime soon...
xxx
Jinni