Jessica, I certainly cannot speak for everyone, but I definitley appreciate the follow up email. Not necessarily the text, since it generally comes in on a cell phone that may or may not be shut off, or may or may not be "private" at the proper time. But as krichard said, most I would assume have a separate or private email. I guess it is up to each his own but I like the connection of the follow up. I personally always try to send an email or text follow up to express my appreciation for anyone who does anything nice for me, perosnally, professionall, or any other way.

And to krichard...you are very eloquent in your praise...whether you mean them as compliments or not. Meeting a lady here on TER is truly the big leagues..

Happy New Year to you ALL as well..

Forgive me if I am posting something that is a "repeat", but while reminiscing about some favorite "hobby" times, I couldn't help but think about what actually made these "favorites" the best. In other words, what distinguished my favorite times from the less than memorable experiences? The common denominator has been our "Carolina Girls" who are often found on this board. Then it dawned on me that maybe.......just maybe......you great ladies are not told often enough, or even realize, about the "little things" (sometimes big) you do that make you fabulous ladies who you are. What are some of these "little things?" --- Glad you asked!!!
- the correspondence that make us feel comfortable. It provides chemistry & a connection
- always being dressed to the 9's........sorry....I mean "undressed" to the 9's!! We notice!!
- the sweet, sexy smiles that you flash the minute you see us that make us feel at ease!!
- the time you take to make sure you are fresh & smell...oh so, hot damn good!!
- the sweet compliments you pay us----you know what I mean --- "damn John Boy...your HUGE!!"
- You never seem to know what time it is because you DON'T look at clocks
- the shower you start for us
- the towel you have ready........& then make sure we are dry.......EVERYWHERE!!
- the attention to detail
- the perfect music playing from your i-pod because you "know" us because you have talked to us
- the last little, sweet LFK as we leave
- the follow up post or email that says "Thanks for a great time. It was special."
The list could go on forever........but I hope these few special touches help paint the picture. These are so refreshing as compared to what some ladies offer. Our "Carolina Girls" ROCK!!!

Now, I may not be a "Big Leaguer" in this hobby. I really don't know if I want to be, to be honest. But, it doesn't take an expert to see the differences in the quality of dates. Let's say early on I was in the "Rookie League" ---- stumbling & bumbling my way around. Then I found TER & was promoted to "Single A".  Then I found "THE BOARD" & was promoted to "Double AA" ---------- you gotta' know baseball here....sorry !! HaHa  Then I actually participated on our great board here in the Carolinas & I was promoted to "Triple AAA". That's when my eyes were opened to the VAST DIFFERENCES in my "Rookie League" days & the differences now in my "Triple AAA" days with the "Carolina Girls".

The best way sometimes to illustrate these differences is through analogies. To save myself from sticking my foot in my mouth, PLEASE UNDERSTAND that these are intended as compliments!!!

So........here goes...... You "Carolina Girls" are:
The Cotton Candy that melts in your mouth at The State Fair. Not the "ride" that rushes you "off"!!
The Premium Fuel that keeps our motor running.......not watered down E-85!!
The Wolford Boutique or Agent Provocateur in stockings.......not Dollar General!!
The warmth of the summer sun.......not a cold, dreary day!!
The finest of wines........not Riunite!!
The best round of "Donkey Kong" imaginable.......not "Operation"!!

So, a special round of thanks & kudos to all you "Carolina Girls" for ALL the "liitle" & "big" things you do to make our xxxperiences the best ever. We ("Carolina Boys") appriciate & value you special ladies!!!

Happy New Year to All !!!!

Thanks for the reminder. I spend alot of time asking myself what can I do to stand out and make your experience a better one..

Do guys really like the follow up email/call or text? I have thought of this often but have assumed that once you leave, The fantasy has ended and you have stepped back into the other world... I don't ever want to be intrusive....

Thanks

That's a great point & question. My point of view may vary from another guy's. All situations are different. However, for me, IF there is that connection & the time is a "WOW!!" experience......yes an email or PM is nice. I tend to be a "repeat" offender & see that lady again & again if I have that connection.  

Certainly, the real world has to be considered & I always appreciate the discretion that is shown, but most of us have a "hobby" email or TER for PM's.

But, really my thread was started to say "Thank You" for you ladies being who you are. Each of you are unique which is special. There are so many things that separate y'all from the rest that it would take a journal to list them all.

OK ----- no more "schillin'" from me on our "Carolina Girls" HaHa  Just kidding!!! I know this isn't an actual "schill" ---- I'm just so excited I learned what that word meant!!!!

I think Tallcool brought it up in the past. Some send something and others are silent.  There is no right and wrong.    I think the surprise of getting something can bring home the experience.  I am guessing most guys want you to enjoy it as much as they do.  And we like the idea of being invited back.  

On occasion I have received a thank you text.  -  (That tells me that I was apprciated).  

I received a electronic card that was heavily personalized with her feelings of the experience.  (Getting to see things through her eyes is neat, I know she said nice things but let me live in my fantas world.)lol

And once I recieved a picture of the lady she took just prior to my arrival in the outfit she was wearing. (That spoke 1000 words)  

So yes it does bring the fantasy back for the moment into the real world.  As for me it makes me want to do it again.  

You know that song.  

"Do that to me one more time
Once is never enough with a girl like you
Do that to me one more time
I can never get enough of a girl like you
Whoa-oh-oh, kiss me like you just did
Oh, baby, do that to me once again

Thanks for sharing.
I have just changed my business model to add such things..

Adding that to the list of things to improve in 2012...

No thanks needed, Ms.Barista. I only spoke the truth!!!

I have soooo much fun playing your games too !!! You are the top scorer on "Ambushed Donkey Kong" !!!  So.....Operation??? Oh yea -- GAME ON!!! --- & yes.....I am ready!! LoLoL

Hey --- have you ever tried "Adult Ring Toss"?

be intrusive...we love it..   or at least this guy does enjoy the reminder of how much she enjoyed the time.

It extends the fantasy, and the truth is (again my opinion only), that it is the "connection" as much as anything, that most men are seeking. Not just the sexual release, but sensual and even somewhat romantic experience. And a thank you note goes a long way into extending that experience ...and probably generating a repeat experience, which should be a win-win..?

some Krispy Kreme Doughnuts?? But, you have to remove the ringers with no hands!!! Ms. Barista, you are SUCH a multi-tasker!!!

You know that I love to have such emails.

Miss Jessica,
Speaking from the newbie point of view, I would enjoy having a little note/email after a nice rendezvous with one of the beautiful Carolina girls......I think that would let me know that I would be welcome back as well as letting me know I was not a complete fumbling idiot!

Just my thoughts.......

Degen

I've been off the board for the Christmas and I'm amazed at some of the touching posts I've read!

xoxo,

Steph