All:

I have been lurking on the board for awhile (months) now and have enjoyed
all of the reviews, comments and discussions immensely. Learned a lot
along the way, and you all got my interest way up there now.

Thus far, I have not been with any of the ladies, but I am working on it.
There are several in whom I have an interest. The only problem is finding
excuses to get out of the house for a few hours in order to spent time with
someone. Wife is disabled, always ill, and generally incapable of sex, nor
is she interested in it. She is content to sit in her recliner in her bathrobe
most days, with the TV on, her iPod in hand, and the dog on her lap and  
then complain about everything. She is content to slowly allow herself
to grow old, in spite of my best efforts to redirect her thinking. As for
myself, I am not at that point yet, even though I am a few years older and in
much better health. I don't like the idea of being cellibate for the rest of
my life. I feel like time is passing me by, and that it is time that I do something
about it. Hence, BP and TER which seem to offer a lot of possibilities based
on the reviews, ads and the discussions. Wow! Lots there to think about.
Seems like there is lots out there to help make up for lost time!

A question or two for both the men and the ladies regarding the ages
and contacts between the older men and the younger ladies, particuarly
those ladies under the age of 30. I haven't decided where to focus my
efforts just yet. Its' a slow process. Looking for someone (lady) who isn't too
far away, and who is generally reasonably available in the local area. Not a
lot of luck there, as too many ladies come and go too often, but in time, that
problem will take care of itself.

I guess what I want to know is this:

Do the younger ladies actually see the older men? Specifically, younger ladies 30
and under and older men 55, 60 and 65. Does this really happen, or should
I look for older ladies whose ages are closer to mine (I am 60). To me, it  
makes no difference. Does sex actually occur between the younger girls
and the older guys? I am not trying to be obnoxous here...just trying to learn a
a little more. These are questions not answered on the newbie board either.

I am seeing a lot of younger ladies out there, and they are extremely  
attractive and tempting. Before I leap, I would like the benefit of the
mens' and ladies experiences, knowledge, thoughts and opinions.  

So, if you are inclined to answer, please share your thoughts with me. All  
replies are appreciated, both mens and womens, as I want to hear both sides.

FWIW, up until I came across the BP and TER, I had never considered
or even thought of younger ladies. I will admit that I was originally looking
for a girlfriend (not necessarily in the escort or "pay for play" business), but that
proved to be a bit difficult, since I couldn't support an "affair" that had major  
strings attached where the wife might find out.....

As a side note,  a buddy put me on the BP, and
from there, I found out about TER). Been on both for many months now,
mostly lurking.

Anyway, all repies graciously accepted

young old mix?  Yes it happens a lot.  I know a gentleman that thinks 22 is getting old. lol   As for me personally I need someone older and wiser.  Not saying that a young lady is stoopid it’s just I need older than 39.  Ok there are some exceptions.  But if she doesn’t advertize an age limit then she doesn’t have one.  I have discovered something though, the longer she has been in the business and the more comfortable she is in the incall the better.  Remember it’s all an illusion and you have to be able to get a mindset that can enter the illusion she creates.  If you can’t then it’s not her fault

Plenty of nice ladies 35-45 years old here in this forum. It all depends on the maturity level and attitude.  There are mature 25 yo ladies that I have really clicked with, and then there are a few mature ladies, that for whatever reason, there was no connection.  Right now I am repeating  with a younger lady, and the chemistry is AWESOME.

In general your experience will be better if you shy away from BP.  Too many issues come into play.  Trust me on this, and follow the advice of several other regulars who post here on this forum.

On what you are looking for.  I personally have not ran into many problems when it comes to age, ethnicity etc.  90% of the time I can find what Im looking for.  For me I have the reverse problem where some of the more mature ladies only see men of 40 or older, which I am not.  Bottom line you should be able to find what you're looking for.  Now as for BP........*sigh* everyone is gonna tell you to stay away its the devil blah blah blah.  Now for a beginner I agree 100% its not the place to start for sure.  After you become a little more knowledgeable and savvy about the hobby then I say treat like a really sharp samurai sword.  If you treat it as what it is, do your research, investigate etc you'll get some great results, get sloppy and you'll cut your finger off.  Im a frequent BP surfer and I wear that badge with no shame.  Sometimes you find some great ladies who are just starting out, and are awesome.  My bad encounters I can count on one hand (and even some of those had nothing to do with the lady), but as I said be cautious and treat BP as what it is.  A dangerous tool, to be handled by someone more seasoned.  I wish you GL on your journey its a pleasant and fun ride with plenty of folks to help you along the way.  If you're REALLY intent on being a BP surfer PM me, I can give you some great tips on how to keep yourself safe and out of trouble.

Totally agree on BP. People like different attributes, cool.  I choose to stay away. Not worth it, at all for me. Sure there are nice meetings that can be found there but those ladies are also here and reviewed. They do it to expand their base and I can understand that. I doubt if any of those ladies will see a gent who is not properly verified, so their bases are covered. Good reviews and thus good reputation I might add. Even though, that often used acronym ymmv always applies no matter what. There are understandably a lot of factors which makes that so. Some more understandable than a lot of others . I get the BP avenue I suppose for those gents looking to make things "stretch" sorta speak too but it's just not worth it in my opinion. If you use BP, just be sure to make sure the lady is reviewed here or some where legit. Her having a website is also good. Shows a level of professionalism or at the least a level of effort and care. At the end of the day, if you find BP works for you, cool but staying safe is number one priority. Be safe my friend.

Wish you all the good luck I can. You seem like a very sincere soul. Best wishes!

Oops, posted without commenting on the actually question you posed about age even though I echo the comments already made concerning. Without question younger women do see those ages. There are some who advertise they do not from what I've seen but they are few far and between. I would think that most would welcome it wo any question. Probably the only concern is that you are healthy I would think. God knows, I couldn't imagine any lady wanting to be around when something bad medically occurs. Not trying to be funny, just saying.

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There are no shortage of clients your age and older who frequent the youngest women they can find. Generally, your experience with under 25's with be more of a crapshoot than someone a little older. While there certainly are exceptions, the impression I've gotten is that the really young ones generally have a harder time wrapping their head around getting naughty with someone their grandpa's age, whereas the older she (and we) get, the less age differences matter.

Hi:

Thank you for taking the time to reply to my question......greatly
appreciated. As I look thru all these ads, I find so many of these ladies
are hard to resist, regardless of their stated ages. Temption is strong...!

The basis for the question in the first place goes like this:

About a year ago, I hired a young CNA to help care for my wife.

The CNA  is unmarried and had no boyfriend. She was 29 years old,
and very pretty. As the wife is (was) mostly in a "stationary" position
around the house most of the day, there were many opportunites to "hit"
on the CNA. She was also a "live in" CNA, so I gave her the spare
bedroom. She lived with us for almost a year. In the process, she  
sort of became a defacto girlfriend to me. She was a real prick teaser,
and I wanted her. I saw her naked several times (shower, or in her bed room,
and on one occassion, she laid naked  in my bed one night with me (wife has a
separate sleeping area). Unfortunately, she would not "put out", no
matter how hard I tried with her. She told me that I was an "old man".
Yet, she  had no problems talking "sex" with me, and  letting me look
at her naked.  I even offered to pay her for sex on one occassion, and
of course, she refused, again saying I was "too old".

She has since moved out, but we still keep in touch.

In any event, that sort of set in motion the reason for the question
I asked earlier about younger vs older.  

I don't feel old, and I don't think I look old, and I could have shown
her a few things I think, had she been willing. I do think she was
interested, but that the "age" thing just got in her way.

So, I was just wondering how the younger ladies "think" when it comes
to older men, and how the older men deal with the younger chicks.

One thing is for sure: its' hard trying to get laid around here! (Laughing)

Again, thanks for taking the time to reply....

Hi Leon:

Thanks for the advice. I, like you, continue to surf the BP, and after I see a lady
of interest, I am moving over to TER to "check her out" and see if she has
a Review by the men. So far, so good. Some ladies also have nice web sites,
and I do check these out as well. Again, I am moving slowly here, doing my
"due diligence" before I get in too deep. If the lady has a good Review (sort of
like her escort "credit report"), then I will probably pursue her at some point.

More to the point, I am very, very careful, and mindful of LE sting operations,
particularly involving younger, good looking girls. Again, I am no hurry, as I
need to be comfortable with this process.

I have also noted some not-so-hot listings (ladies) on BP, so, in that regard,
the red flags went up at this end. I do like the "Review" system on TER. I think
this is a great asset for us, and am still trying to figure out how to get on to
the VIP part of it

Whee! I'm still within your age range, i.e. Not Dead(as I type this)---LOL---However, as the late Buddy Holly sang----"Every day it gets a lil closer...," or something close)  I've been going up and down(no pun) on the age scale(18 to 45?---I only look at their face to see if their eyes are "soft", and their smile is "genuine", and then on down to the "juicy" parts, as TER likes to say;P~~~ Have only noted two "girls" who put a top on their ages to see---one didn't last, and the other one seems to be going great guns without me(

Mr. ...Cakes, time is NOT on your side! Make a logical plan to get out of the house, i.e. take up golf, fishing, etc. for cover and take the plunge(still no pun)---then, for goodness sakes, DON'T go back to the house with dancing feet and a big smile on your face, singing at the top of your lungs) Just put your game face back on and plan your next, er, "golf" game---You know life is like a game of golf---you get out of one "hole" and you head to the next one;P~~~ (not my creation(, butt  o so true)

BP is only for experienced "golfers," so stick to the TER ladies with reviews, and start that journey TODAY, while YOU still have good health---I do feel sorry for your SO, who seems to have lost the joy of living, due to not having the main ingredient for a happy life---HEALTH!  

If your first lady agrees, post that review so that the rest of us can enjoy your fictional journey with the Sirens who lure us with their heavenly songs(moans, gasps, even loud shrieks)---not to mention their O so soft bodies that make us like the proverbial baby, who can't resist giving up our "candy" too without a crying fit---just a groan maybe;P~~

Miss M, after the tax man squeezes my pocketbook, I am gonna get your way for some more "squeezing" :P~~~

Thanks Hector:

Your second paragraph: very reassuring!

Dave

Hi SweetMelissa:

Nice reply...thank you!

When I was younger (age 16), my first sexual encounter was with a woman who was 34,
older, and more than twice my age at the time. She was hot.....

She taught me a lot. It was a fluke meeting. I used to cut her lawn and one day, she didn't
have enough cash on hand to pay me. Her husband was away, as he was an airline pilot
who was gone "all the time", flying Miami to South America long haul routes for days at a
time. I guess she got lonely.

As a pilot wife for a large airline, she lived well, in a villa with a nice pool. She invited me
into the pool one day. This was in Miami, FL back in the 60s. So, I have always liked older
women, and even some women who today could be classified as BBW or "full figured",
although this lady was not. (She had once been a flight attendant).

After our first "encounter", it soon became a regular thing. I passed her house on the
way back home from school ( I used to walk from home to school), and often, she would
be outside, and invite me in. We did our thing for many months, and I loved it. Eventually,
all good things had to come to an end. I graduated high school and joined the Army.....went
overseas, and a few years later came back to visit my folks, and her. Unfortunately, she
and her hubby had moved and the house had been sold.....but, such fond memories of an
experience with a lady at the time who was much older!! 44 years ago now...

I started the hobby 15 months ago at age 64. I've seen close to 30 girls in that time, a number that astounds me. (I should have started years ago.) The oldest have been in their late 40s, and the youngest have been in their early 20s.  

I recommend that you don't think too hard about how old they are. There are different pleasures from the younger ones and the older ones, but it's all good. You'll have to discover what sort of girl you like the best. And maybe you'll find that you like them all.

I am 47; my wife admitted the other night she has no sex drive. I feel a pang of guilt at times but I am devoted to her and my family but hey I need an outlet. I am great shape these days, best since I was 20 - running triathlons and half-marathons.  So here I am  

Two thoughts that I have found:

Age is important in the provider but not like you think- I generally avoid the young ones on BP; its truly hit or miss. I have had my best luck in using TER for reviews with USAG as a back up. But so many are into drugs, etc. It is truly sad at times how messed up some of them are. I have had more bad than good with young BP girls to the point that it is really depressing me.  

I like the 40+ because they are typically in it because they want to, they are almost always more confident, more experienced and frankly more fun. And with a few exceptions drug free. My ATF was 50+ - she was no young spinner but man could she go. Full of experience in life, wise and sexy. She moved out of town last summer and it was a bleak day.

Be choosy, be wise and enjoy.