Carolinas
Maybe out of retirement
I'm not sure we have met and I don't know where you are but, I might be able to help you out...send me a message or an email 
I was very active in the hobby for a couple of years. I saw many of the most respective ladies on TER. Now that I am interested in seeing someone again I am running up against a brick wall. Any suggestions for someone who wants to come out of retirement with no past six months visits? Am I a Newbie again? I do have a couple of WhiteLists on TER. I think they are positive. I don't know why they wouldn't be positive. Any help would be appreciated, especially from any of the wonderful ladies I have met in the past.
I think you should be ok, ( I WOULD THINK SO!) There's no handbook in this thing, I am sure you will find some lady who will be reasonable with screening-
It's not that hard to contact ladies. The time limit on "expiration" of the "good-to-go" of what a lady finds acceptable varies.
(Heh, YMMV on okay expirations lol) If you are restarting, maybe you should get a p411- and keep track of your okay's-
A lot of ladies dig p411- I do- and date-check.
WHatever floats your boat & fits your comfort levels!
Plenty of fish out in this ocean Happy fishing! Foxy
It's not that hard to contact ladies. The time limit on "expiration" of the "good-to-go" of what a lady finds acceptable varies.
(Heh, YMMV on okay expirations lol) If you are restarting, maybe you should get a p411- and keep track of your okay's-
A lot of ladies dig p411- I do- and date-check.
WHatever floats your boat & fits your comfort levels!
Plenty of fish out in this ocean
Happy fishing! Foxy I was very active in the hobby for a couple of years. I saw many of the most respective ladies on TER. Now that I am interested in seeing someone again I am running up against a brick wall. Any suggestions for someone who wants to come out of retirement with no past six months visits? Am I a Newbie again? I do have a couple of WhiteLists on TER. I think they are positive. I don't know why they wouldn't be positive. Any help would be appreciated, especially from any of the wonderful ladies I have met in the past.
to have absolutely no issue with seeing you again, any time. Some ladies, especially ones who are not familiar with the local ladies due to either being new, or from out of town, may be more stringent with their requirements for a reference within the past 6 months. I know that I am when I'm in unfamiliar territory...but that's what keeps us safe.
You may need to see one of your previous providers to obtain that reference within the last 6 months, if she will even accept just one. I understand it can be frustrating, but on our side of the table, guys can change a lot over time...just as ladies can "go bad," so can men. Ladies are just looking out for their safety...it's never personal...they just don't know you're too sweet to ever go bad.
xo
I was very active in the hobby for a couple of years. I saw many of the most respective ladies on TER. Now that I am interested in seeing someone again I am running up against a brick wall. Any suggestions for someone who wants to come out of retirement with no past six months visits? Am I a Newbie again? I do have a couple of WhiteLists on TER. I think they are positive. I don't know why they wouldn't be positive. Any help would be appreciated, especially from any of the wonderful ladies I have met in the past.
You may need to see one of your previous providers to obtain that reference within the last 6 months, if she will even accept just one. I understand it can be frustrating, but on our side of the table, guys can change a lot over time...just as ladies can "go bad," so can men. Ladies are just looking out for their safety...it's never personal...they just don't know you're too sweet to ever go bad.
xo
I was very active in the hobby for a couple of years. I saw many of the most respective ladies on TER. Now that I am interested in seeing someone again I am running up against a brick wall. Any suggestions for someone who wants to come out of retirement with no past six months visits? Am I a Newbie again? I do have a couple of WhiteLists on TER. I think they are positive. I don't know why they wouldn't be positive. Any help would be appreciated, especially from any of the wonderful ladies I have met in the past.