: Carolinas Discussion : Just when....

jessgfe See my TER Reviews 1469 reads

posted 13 years ago

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Between 4 friends and myself, 16 attempts to book with false references. I have blacklisted each contact info.

Ladies, check and double check references and create blacklist reports of everything gone wrong before, during, or after.

Gents, I strongly urge you to obtain date check and p411 memberships. I personally will not meet anyone without both.

Jessica

longrifleshot 767 reads

posted 13 years ago

2 / 14

wow action!!

action instead of panic. what an idea. working together to sort out the wolves from the sheep. great idea.

Posted By: jessgfe

Between 4 friends and myself, 16 attempts to book with false references. I have blacklisted each contact info.

Ladies, check and double check references and create blacklist reports of everything gone wrong before, during, or after.

Gents, I strongly urge you to obtain date check and p411 memberships. I personally will not meet anyone without both.

Jessica

natashalynne See my TER Reviews 752 reads

posted 13 years ago

3 / 14

It happens every day, on multiple sites, and like Julia said...

it's better if it stays discreet. The fact that you don't know about it is a good thing, IMO. It keeps up safer that way.

Sooo...YouWanna 879 reads

posted 13 years ago

4 / 14

Ppl need to take this seriously

friends and I have also gotten a lot of fake references since the 1st. One got caught up in a sting off DateCheck, with references. Low volume, high dollar, decades of experience.

An ounce of prevention may not be enough anymore.

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natashalynne See my TER Reviews 516 reads

posted 13 years ago

5 / 14

Can you please email or PM Julia and I some additional details? (eom)

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brwneyedguy 9 Reviews 607 reads

posted 13 years ago

6 / 14

What about White List

I hate that you ladies are having these issues truly !

I have a question about the "White List"..is that something that you Ladies use very much. I am not complaining about not being on there, although I am pretty sure I have behaved myself well in the meetings I have had. Just curious as to whether Ladies actually use that, or how exactly does a GENTLEMAN get himself placed on there by reputable ladies...

MatureGFE See my TER Reviews 575 reads

posted 13 years ago

7 / 14

Like Julia I'd like to know as well. Please PM me with details.

If DC as been compromised we need to know the details.

Steph

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MatureGFE See my TER Reviews 491 reads

posted 13 years ago

8 / 14

I use white list as part of my screening. (eom)

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LargeHamm 33 Reviews 478 reads

posted 13 years ago

9 / 14

I just ask the ladies

When I ask them if I can write a review, and if they will provide OK on P411 and a recommendation (hopefully highly recommended) on Date-Check. I would hope that ladies would use whitelisting, as well as all other resources to screen us.

Just as many of us clients screen heavily, I hope you ladies screen heavily as well. I won't see anyone without a strong, credible, and recent on-line presence - P411 AND Date-Check, multiple reviews, preferably on multiple review sites, and her own website. One or two of those can be missing, but the rest better be pretty strong. You ladies should do the same. I prefer ladies that screen heavily. Means they are serious about discretion.

katymarie See my TER Reviews 549 reads

posted 13 years ago

10 / 14

Could you please PM me also? eom

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Weltschmerz 503 reads

posted 13 years ago

11 / 14

Why both Date-Check and p411

I don't really understand this. They both provide, effectively, the same service.

I can see saying, I'll only see people with (a p411 or Date-check ID) AND provider references. Those are two different means of working toward the same end goal.

What does date-check or p411 do differently than the other that it would really be any more reassuring? To my knowledge, they do basically the exact same thing when screening clients.

It's like going to Home Depot to by a hammer and then going to Lowes to by a hammer. If I can get away with buying a hammer at lowes (being verified with p411)... I can probably do it just as easily at home depot (being verified with date-check).

Granted, anyone can have whichever requirements they'd like, I just don't see much logic behind it unless I'm missing something about what one does differently than the other.

stevenwilliams26 8 Reviews 621 reads

posted 13 years ago

12 / 14

Just when....

I though about coming back to the hobby, the new law went into effect...Aaargh! Allthought Julia, Miss Toy, Alyse, Aria, Jasmine are still on my 'todo list'

Guess I will go back to racing.

BellaMaytress See my TER Reviews 598 reads

posted 13 years ago

13 / 14

Re: Can you please email or PM Julia and I some additional details? (eom)

Please please pm me details as well? Much, much appreciated!

Be safe all
Xoxo

Sooo...YouWanna 544 reads

posted 13 years ago

14 / 14

Re: Questions...

Established account, references I'm guessing last 6 months, from NC, never on BP.

I'll try to find more info and PM. She said she blacklisted him.

Posted By: JuliasLilSecret

What this a relatively new account created by LE or was it an established account that had been flipped? How established were the references? In state references, out of state references? From newer ladies with little history or from established ladies? Did this high dollar/low volume provider advertise on Backpage? What county was this sting in?