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action instead of panic.  what an idea. working together to sort out the wolves from the sheep. great idea.

Posted By: jessgfe
Between 4 friends and myself,  16 attempts to book with false references. I have blacklisted each contact info.  
   
   
   
 Ladies, check and double check references and create blacklist reports of everything gone wrong before, during, or after.  
   
   
 Gents, I strongly urge you to obtain date check and p411 memberships. I personally will not meet anyone without both.  
   
   
 Jessica

Between 4 friends and myself,  16 attempts to book with false references. I have blacklisted each contact info.

 

Ladies, check and double check references and create blacklist reports of everything gone wrong before, during, or after.

 
Gents, I strongly urge you to obtain date check and p411 memberships. I personally will not meet anyone without both.

 
Jessica

action instead of panic.  what an idea. working together to sort out the wolves from the sheep. great idea.

Posted By: jessgfe
Between 4 friends and myself,  16 attempts to book with false references. I have blacklisted each contact info.  
   
   
   
 Ladies, check and double check references and create blacklist reports of everything gone wrong before, during, or after.  
   
   
 Gents, I strongly urge you to obtain date check and p411 memberships. I personally will not meet anyone without both.  
   
   
 Jessica

it's better if it stays discreet.  The fact that you don't know about it is a good thing, IMO.  It keeps up safer that way.

Sooo...YouWanna879 reads

friends and I have also gotten a lot of fake references since the 1st. One got caught up in a sting off DateCheck, with references. Low volume, high dollar, decades of experience.

An ounce of prevention may not be enough anymore.

-- Modified on 8/8/2013 6:23:54 PM

I hate that you ladies are having these issues truly !

I have a question about the "White List"..is that something that you Ladies use very much. I am not complaining about not being on there, although I am pretty sure I have behaved myself well in the meetings I have had. Just curious as to whether Ladies actually use that, or how exactly does a GENTLEMAN get himself placed on there by reputable ladies...

When I ask them if I can write a review, and if they will provide OK on P411 and a recommendation (hopefully highly recommended) on Date-Check. I would hope that ladies would use whitelisting, as well as all other resources to screen us.

Just as many of us clients screen heavily, I hope you ladies screen heavily as well. I won't see anyone without a strong, credible, and recent on-line presence - P411 AND Date-Check, multiple reviews, preferably on multiple review sites, and her own website. One or two of those can be missing, but the rest better be pretty strong. You ladies should do the same. I prefer ladies that screen heavily. Means they are serious about discretion.

Weltschmerz502 reads

I don't really understand this.  They both provide, effectively, the same service.

I can see saying, I'll only see people with (a p411 or Date-check ID) AND provider references.  Those are two different means of working toward the same end goal.

What does date-check or p411 do differently than the other that it would really be any more reassuring?  To my knowledge, they do basically the exact same thing when screening clients.

It's like going to Home Depot to by a hammer and then going to Lowes to by a hammer.  If I can get away with buying a hammer at lowes (being verified with p411)... I can probably do it just as easily at home depot (being verified with date-check).

Granted, anyone can have whichever requirements they'd like, I just don't see much logic behind it unless I'm missing something about what one does differently than the other.

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