I have worked my ass off providing for my family, literally going to the other side of the world to make money so she can stay at home with kids.  I want to have a happy life but we are on such different paths...  Here is an example of what I have to put up with:
1.  Wife believes she is only qualified to work I'm the field in which she majored in college
2.  She only started back to work when I told her I did not see us staing together.
3.  Because she did not work while children were growing up returning to work is hard.
4.  House is too big to clean
5.  Does laundry ever 3 weeks.  I try to keep with every week routine.
6.  Too much work to prepare for friends to come over
7.  Mercedes needs servicing and she doesn't have time o drop it off
8.  No emotional connection, no discussion of future
9.  No sexual curiosity - nothing new, ever
10. Know any good famiy law attorneys?

Don't want to start anything, but there are always 2 sides to every story. I wonder what her list would say??

If I don't have any friends I want to entertain. Does that mean me then!

Although it sounds like I was looking for a maid, I am really looking for an equal partner.  Looking hot is not a prerequisite but a definite nice to have.  

Could you be specific? How much to do the laundry?

Gentlemen,  do you realize that her offer is a damn good deal as it stands.  Think about it. Just sayin.

Don't want to start anything, but there are always 2 sides to every story. I wonder what her list would say??

I have not met you yet, but I already like you.  But before I buy a car I always test drive it. I guess I need to see you soon.

Just wondering, since you are going to see me each week,  do I get any visitation of the car at all. Maybe I should ask for the Naked Gourmet once a month for all the add ons.




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marriage to me. Sadly,, people get comfortable and take many things and each other for granted.. I can promise you she has a similar laundry list for you.. Now, Having said that..

I can also promise you.. she is comfortable and has forgotton to be appreciative and I bet she honestly believes some or most of what she is telling you.. She also does not really really believe you are serious about leaving. Nor does she even have a clue how to change and give you some of what you need.. Not to mention she does not feel motivated to change because again she has her own laundry list for you..

So you have 3 options!...

You can decide that your marriage is a PARTNER SHIP THAT TAKES TWO!. Go to counsling, let her know you are serious, Be open to accept your own laundry list of shit, Work really, really hard even when it sucks worse, because it WILL. Be willing to be patient and honest and humble  or..

Accept what is and do your own thing.

Get out...( Make damn sure, if you choose option 3) that you did everything you could do and that you are willing to lose 1/2 of everything you own and then some ( friends, things, cash, etc, etc. It is not all material. and divorce sucks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

I feel there has been a nogotiation break down. I guess I have to go back to the first deal.

I like the SLK and will enjoy driving it when your done with it. I don't like the SL550. When I set in it, it make me feel older.

And sometimes bigger engines aren't always better. I've always driven the smaller engine. Better gas mileage. At least I think so. ( it's my story )

I have checked 4 dealership and no one has an SLK250. Did they stop making it. I'll keep looking.

http://stlouis.cbslocal.com/2013/01/25/court-93-year-old-kills-wife-of-70-years-because-he-couldnt-take-it-anymore/

Many are in your shoes. Think of it as an arrangement, don’t expect anything and just what you must and don’t pay attention to anything else.

Don’t get dragged into useless arguments. Make your own rules to live by.

I was married for 18 years. Couldn't have imagined what hell 70 years would have been.

1. Be glad she helped you while you were in college.
2. Answer later.
3. Yes, it is VERY hard. She has younger competition out there, and little real experience.
4. House is too big to clean because if you both work, both need to clean, or HIRE a MAID. No brainer. She can be sexy looking, and that's a bonus. You get to watch.
5. Who give a flip when she does laundry? Is it her job, or is it both your jobs? She's not your Mama. Don't TRY, DO IT.
6. To much work for who? Maybe you should help...orrrr...hire a MAID and a caterer.
7. YOU have a Mercedes? HIRE a maid, sell the Mercedes. Let the maid take the Mitsubishi to the shop.
8. No emotional connection? Of course not. You make her feel as like a MAID. Show her she is cherished and loved. Need advice on that, write me. I got a list.
9. Would you be sexually curious about a woman who treated you like a thing?
10. Make the effort. Trust me, it's cheaper than the lawyer, the child support, and the alimony.

Back to 3: You did marry her because she was a fox, right? Get to the nearest Adam and Eve, then make a stop at a jeweler's, the florist, and don't forget to HIRE A MAID. Oh, and while you are at it, remember that a woman's body is sensitive all over, not just inside the vagina.

Case closed. Marriage saved.