Don't want to start anything, but there are always 2 sides to every story. I wonder what her list would say??

Sounds like.............

marriage to me. Sadly,, people get comfortable and take many things and each other for granted.. I can promise you she has a similar laundry list for you.. Now, Having said that..

I can also promise you.. she is comfortable and has forgotton to be appreciative and I bet she honestly believes some or most of what she is telling you.. She also does not really really believe you are serious about leaving. Nor does she even have a clue how to change and give you some of what you need.. Not to mention she does not feel motivated to change because again she has her own laundry list for you..

So you have 3 options!...

You can decide that your marriage is a PARTNER SHIP THAT TAKES TWO!. Go to counsling, let her know you are serious, Be open to accept your own laundry list of shit, Work really, really hard even when it sucks worse, because it WILL. Be willing to be patient and honest and humble  or..

Accept what is and do your own thing.

Get out...( Make damn sure, if you choose option 3) that you did everything you could do and that you are willing to lose 1/2 of everything you own and then some ( friends, things, cash, etc, etc. It is not all material. and divorce sucks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

http://stlouis.cbslocal.com/2013/01/25/court-93-year-old-kills-wife-of-70-years-because-he-couldnt-take-it-anymore/

Many are in your shoes. Think of it as an arrangement, don’t expect anything and just what you must and don’t pay attention to anything else.

Don’t get dragged into useless arguments. Make your own rules to live by.

Hire a Maid

1. Be glad she helped you while you were in college.
2. Answer later.
3. Yes, it is VERY hard. She has younger competition out there, and little real experience.
4. House is too big to clean because if you both work, both need to clean, or HIRE a MAID. No brainer. She can be sexy looking, and that's a bonus. You get to watch.
5. Who give a flip when she does laundry? Is it her job, or is it both your jobs? She's not your Mama. Don't TRY, DO IT.
6. To much work for who? Maybe you should help...orrrr...hire a MAID and a caterer.
7. YOU have a Mercedes? HIRE a maid, sell the Mercedes. Let the maid take the Mitsubishi to the shop.
8. No emotional connection? Of course not. You make her feel as like a MAID. Show her she is cherished and loved. Need advice on that, write me. I got a list.
9. Would you be sexually curious about a woman who treated you like a thing?
10. Make the effort. Trust me, it's cheaper than the lawyer, the child support, and the alimony.

Back to 3: You did marry her because she was a fox, right? Get to the nearest Adam and Eve, then make a stop at a jeweler's, the florist, and don't forget to HIRE A MAID. Oh, and while you are at it, remember that a woman's body is sensitive all over, not just inside the vagina.

Case closed. Marriage saved.