being new to the South, curious to me on how to play nice in the sand box

Do most prefer hotels or private incall,is outcall a preference, week days or evenings more convienent, Weekends or weekdays, and are warm and sunny days better then cool and rainy and is an hour of undivided attention more desired then longer ...just trying to learn this new area of the country

Re: being new to the South, curious to me on how to play nice in the sand box

Welcome to Charleston, I hope that you enjoy the city. It is a very beautiful place that I visit as often as possible.

As for your question, I prefer incall in a nice area. As far as hotel, condo, apartment, etc., I just prefer a place that is easy to get to, close to the interstate.

So far a lot of ladies I've seen to not offer in-call which means I have to not only pay their fee but then pay for a motel room too. This gets very pricey. So I would like a lady to furnish in-call.

I can't do weekends so weekdays are better for me. I also like to try and play during my lunch hour so usually can only see a lady for a 1 hour appointment.

The weather really doesn't have much to do with me scheduling the appointment, it's more when I see a time I can get away.

Hope this helps!!...DB8

Re: being new to the South, curious to me on how to play nice in the sand box

Welcome to Charleston.....it's a beautiful place and you should be well recieved here.  I've seen your website

I prefer incall and restrict most of my play to weekday days or early evenings.  Doesn't matter if it's sunny or rainy although a rainy afternoon spent with a warm friend is always something special.  As for incall...back in the day most ladies had a private apartment for their regulars.  I understand things are different now so a convenient to access hotel works fine and there are some nice, new, moderately priced ones popping up around town so no need to go overboard with the cost.  Everyone loves downtown except those of us that live here (lol) so anywhere centrally located is good as long as it's not anywhere on Ashley Phosphate....

D

I suppose it has its limits...
have a most wonderful rainy weekend

And an hour i susally long enough to get the "feeling" but sometimes its nice to have that early evening glass of wine or martini together It makes it all more personal I suppose.....have a great weekend!

I much prefer an incall at the provider's place, or an upscale hotel, rather than the 'motel' that washes their bedspreads once a year... if that frequently.
I usually book two hours so that We can relax, talk, and get to know each other, if we haven't met before.
I do not like a hurried date, where the gal is in and out at the sound of a cell phone ringing!

I have always taken a bottle of wine, some gifts for the lady, and some Godivas. It would be a welcome surprise if the lady welcomed me into her 'lair' , offered me a drink, and had some soft music playing,...just like one could expect from a courtesan. Certainly, I wouldn't expect this treatment from an agency gal.

Also, I don't enjoy being told that 'her driver' is coming for her in five minutes, especially if I booked her for two hours, and we've seen each other before.

The only place that I've had the treatment that I described above, is in the ATL area.

One may argue that I'm expecting too much from a casual date, but sooner or later, the provider is going to realize that she is in business where her appearance is part of the service that she offers, and her client is more likely to return.

There is nothing more of a turnoff, than a provider who shows up in jeans, and a wrinkled shirt or blouse, wet hair, and no make-up. It's a signal that her customer (not client) is just a guy with a few hundred bucks.

I don't think that there's anything wrong with a guy and gal becoming friends.

Maybe I'm expecting too much, but I enjoy hugging and kissing a gal as if she were a GFE.

As 'Forest Gump' would say,... 'and that's all I have to say about that'. I do love you gals.

the Charlestona rea and find some "friends"....I do have a whole page on my website about the 'friendships" we all seek and cherish

Re: being new to the South, curious to me on how to play nice in the sand box

It's possible that the answers to your questions may depend on a particular Carolina city so I'll focus on Greenville/Spartanburg area.

We're still a small town (compared with RTP or Charlotte). There's always a significant chance I'll bump into someone I know (civvie world or the hobbying world) in a hotel. So, I do prefer a private incall. I can't get away during weekends or late weekdays but noon time works great. Cool or rainy days don't make a difference to me. As far as duration, 90 minutes works best for me...

RVdH

Hi Honey welcome to the south!


I am so close to leaving the "Carolina's" Area but I thought I would give you some good tips and pointers on working in the "south".

First of all, please make sure that you are diligent in your screening and if you ever need a reference from me I would be happy to provide one for you. I haven't seen that many gentlemen in the NC/SC area but a lot of my previous lovers do travel so they may cross your path.

Secondly, I highly recommend getting an Incall. Just be really discrete about it and go about it in a smart way. If you'd like more information on how to choose a good location I would be happy to discuss that with you via PM or email.

Third, like Fancy's mama said, Just be nice to the gentlemen Fancy and they'll be nice to you.

I am sure you know that already but there are really a lot of wonderful men here and I do wish you a lot of luck and success in this new area.

~Love Rae

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I love that song!!