The whole time that I was writing reviews(for ladies who wanted such), AND paying monthly dues, I did not know that TER was putting FREE days into my "bank"!  WOW!  Great Perk!  Can now enjoy reading reviews to help me stay out of trouble's way into 2014!!!

I am totally aware of the YMMV thing, AND have been on the receiving end of such, and have seen guys posting reviews after me, and others, who did not have that GFE experience I(WE) experienced, during that particular dance, but TER has helped keep that to a minimum for me--TY TER, AND Reviewers who take the time to post a complete review, without a bunch of Don't Knows)

Course, Ladies, as it should be, have the right to do whatever feels right for them during each dance. After all, we guys are kinda, sorta "Guests" who have been invited into their "world":P~~~
O,K. Guys/ladies ? here---If lady "A" in her reviews has said yes to dance steps X, Y, and Z, and you(guy) comes along expecting X, Y, and Z dance steps, but she says "I have a headache and not doing Z today!" Should she take 1/3 off her dance fee? Because she has not made that known until you are face to face on the dance floor---just storming out of the room creates bad feelings all around, whereas doing the above might lessen the sting of rejection a bit, and change a review upward a couple points, you think?  Bummer, but it has happened, i.e., YMMV(

Thought every one knows you get 15 free days per new review. lol.  That is why some write those fake reviews.  Its called being cheap.    For those that may not know,  you look into your account and you can get the number of days left.

I find in my lil world that I should to not make any assumptions and try to go into a date without any preconceived anticipations.  As you said YMMV and I find that occurs on every subsequent date.  Thank gawd that every date isnt a cookie cutter even with the same lady.  

I am never ceased to be amazed that the ladies are so welcoming when you walk into the door.  She could be having a very bad day or week,  or not have gotten a good nights rest and would actually be happy curled up on a lounge chair lost in a good book.  But instead she is face to face with you and going to show you a good time.  So yes your milage may vary with no reflecting on yourself. It could be you but it could be the real world bleeding over into your lil fantasy.  

As far as a discount,  do remember, that the donation is for time only.  Everything else is mmmmm consenting adults sorta stuff.

I reference prior to meeting so that we are free to discuss expectations on both ends. As well as likes, dislikes etc...   I would not use an excuse like a headache. If your hygiene or attitude is not up to par I will tell you point blank.
Keep in mind when seeking a romantic experience, demeanor goes both ways.
You cannot act like a jerk, making demands and addressing the fact your paying for services during that time and then expect the woman to be into you.

If your A hobbyist that continuously receives ymmv, then the problem may be you
Everyone has off days, everyone makes mistakes.
A good provider or hobbyist will do what they can to fix it.

Any guy that is already looking for problems just to get a discount, well good luck with that....
Giving a discount to get a better review???
If it is a bad provider they earned the bad review. If you were a bad client then you should not give one.

Either way the review should be about the provider not based upon how much of a discount you got.

Um, no.

What if she is a greek provider. And 10 minutes before you arrive feels an issue inside her body that prevents greek from happening...



Count your blessings.


A girl that is actually attracted to a client may go above and beyond for him. But the next client is a 280 lb  client that she is forcing herself to even smile at.


Reality stings. Can you not appreciate the girl is even meeting you in the first place? Let's get real, most of the really attractive providers wouldn't even look twice at most of the clients they see during working hours.


In my years, I've noticed having a six pack really gets a girl going.