I only see people that are a member, post reviews and have more than 2 ref's. Am I being to Paranoid? How can I extensively & correctly screen the people that have nothing??   Thanks so much,
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They are just lurkers who haven't even bothered to sign up for the free account!  I would stay away, as they could be anybody.  It's no different than guys seeing a lady who has no board presence, or reviews.  Not worth the risk either way IMO.  You are a beautiful lady, so not surprised that you are getting lots of responses!  Your screening requirements seem reasonable to me, so I would stick with that.  Just my 2 cents...

You could offer employment verification, but I suppose even that could be faked if they don't have something else to back it up. I guess it really depends on how much other information they are willing to give you, and whether or not you can feel comfortable with that.

Yeah, I guess anyone can browse the discussion boards whether they are member or not.  TER should make it so that people have to sign up to view anything beyond a welcome screen, IMO.

Thank you so much for the advice!

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I fail to post much on TER simply because I've tried to give some positive reviews on some ladies, only to find the reviews rejected.  I've never quite understood the TER Review guidelines.  I have been able to post on another - although less user friendly - board, so don't use reviews as your basis for denying an appointment.

BYW, hope to meet you some day!

AGREED!