To begin with, I'm in a shitty mood and I really don't want to be writing this today, but sometimes your hand is forced. Today, is one of those days.

I'm not sure where or who or what the shit storm is all about on this board. My fucking email box is full of Carolina Board drama and you guys should all know better than this. I fucking hate drama. Guys bitching about girls, girls bitching about girls and in total everyone is bitching. WTF, does this whole fucking board need to get laid? If so, great you are in the right place, go and get it done.

So in general, here are the answers to your questions.

1. Yes, sometimes I let an ad in before the seven days are up. Shoot me, maybe some day you will need a favor too.

2. I don't approve reviews, the Admins do. Go bitch to them how long it's taking to get them approved, I can't do anything about it. They are working their asses off to get them done as quick as possible. What's the huge rush for?

3. She stole your pictures, what can I do? Call the police and report your pictures stolen, no. All I can do is the same as you, ask her to not use them and enforce it when she tries. Watermark your pictures and you won't have any more problems.

4. If you guys and girls want to have fun on the board go ahead. I have never quashed any attempt of any of your fun, just don't bitch at me when someone is trying to have some fun or inspire some conversation. It's not always done for pure advertising purposes.

5. This board, and all of TER's boards are here to be fun and inspiring. Why don't you people use them for such? Look at the competing boards, are they better or more fun? Great, go over there then and don't start drama here. I am very disappointed with this board. In my personal opinion this is one of TER's best boards. Great and very intelligent women with a wonderful group of polite and humerous guys. Both groups keep things light and lively and normally this place is drama free. Life is so short and goes so quickly, is this really what you guys want? Bull shit drama and bickering? Treat each other with respect and have fun but be gentle with each other.

I will be here less and less frequently going forward as I tackle some major health issues. God willing if and when I come back full time I hope to see a different tone on this board. As always, Sojourner7 is here to answer your questions and help in any manner he can. He is by far a wonderful man, not to mention a fellow Chicagoan, be kind to him.

Take Care and take care of each other.

Funtimes61

stress you out or get you upset! Its NOT worth it. I don't know WHAT is going with some of the members lately. YOU worry about yourself...and ignore your inbox for awhile! Your health is WAY more important!

I do hope you feel better.

There is nothing worse then feeling like S@@@ and having drama too...

Go and get well

Don't let this petty sh*t occupy your time!

xoxo,

Steph

worrying about getting better to come back to everyone who cares about you not this kind of silliness.  As a former silliness maker on this board, I must say, do what I did, think about what you are doing fully and wise up.  It's not worth the time, effort, or embarrassment to cause trouble over minor BS.  Realize what is more important and enjoy it, relax and have some fun on these boards instead of griping, learn from people here and discover friends.  Whatever, but don't pile such crazy nonsense on top of Funtimes.  All you will end up doing is making yourself feel bad in the end and make someone like Funtimes get all upset too, from having to deal with it all.   Was i9t really worth it to do that?  I doubt it!  So I suggest, learn from others and get involved and find ways to enjoy the board.  It will make you feel better than you surely are by doing this.

Funtimes, please try to concentrate on getting well.  I am sure all of us want you back to us quickly in tip top healthy shape!  Plus thank you Funtimes, for your advice and help in the past.  


Now hugs and kisses everyone!

LL

Never let anyone's drama drag you down.

and I hope you get better soon. You speak from the heart, and that is what is most important in life. Take good care of yourself. xoxo Fi