I too have had some of my ATF's get "pissed" for lack of a better word when I have chosen to see others. You are correct in that it is my choice but there are ladies who feel like you should be loyal to them which I find ironic given they see many other people.

Who wants to play in Raleigh this week

Love my ATF but want a little change of pace and thats why I am a DOG

Can I get an Amen!

She is your ATF in this Hobby. NOT your GF...

Dude, Don't kid yourself.. She assumes you hobby around...

I was thinking about making the ride Wednesday/Thursday...

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Find new ATF's!

My "friends" that I have met..I offer my help finding new girls for them to see...or tell them about other girls I know in various cities to recommend! This is supposed to be fun! Of course I have regulars..and I adore them..but I also want them to fuck their brains out with other women and get all they can out of this hobby!

I can't play this week
BUT..I return next week and Thursday I can make your day!!
I 'll show you my doggie!!

xoxo

Sexy

PS I agree with the other ladies on here. You are free to see whoever  you choose.

they are same ones that will not provide references and act like jerks.  This is a pleasure business not fucking match.com

Live in Durham and LOVE to play!!! HUGS!!

show up clean, pay my bill and never overstay my welcome...

And so why are you so cranky?

Yes, you made a great suggestion.  Thank you.

I had guys tell me that they couldn't post reviews on me because they didn't want her to get mad at them.  So her pissy-ness hurt my business.  Which is, of course, exactly what she intended.

But also, she lost clients because of it, and I'm not sure she realized that.  The smarter clients saw it for what it was and cut her off.

But I lost a lot of respect for the men who refused to stand up to her, but also continued to see her (the ones who would "sneak" to see me).  Hmmm.....I'm 100% sure some of them are reading this now, and know exactly who I'm talking about....

Theres plenty of ladies out there, Ive had a few men tell me, Dont let so and so know Ive seen you, she will get mad..who freaking cares?? What she going to do? Beat me up or beat you up? LMAO, funny..I have a lot of regulars that come to myrtle beach all the time and they always call on me but some times Im booked up and I tell them they should see other providers and I even recommend a few I know.  The only thing I do get pissed about is when one of my regulars go see someone else and gets treated like shit or ripped off..

Hell...she even had some guy set up appointments with providers..and then they would NOT SHOW UP! Those guys know who they are too!

After all this not sure if I sound like a limpdick whimp - but was just trying to show why I was asking via an alias.  The ATF is not a mad bitch or anything - and I only flater myself that she would even care.... But since I am single in civi life, thought I would see what it feels like to sneak around --

Whoa, did I just write that.  Think I need a shrink.

D-Dog

She isn't jealous you're cock is going in another girl, she's mad that you are giving part of your hobbying budget to somebody else.  Rent another girl, and call your atf up while having fun!

if your ATF is treating you that way, can you imagine how she treats other providers wanting references???  That's why allowing that kind of behavior not only affects you; but also other ladies out there.

Dog, yep you sound bad.   She must really be good to get you hooked like that, but alas not good enough.  Tell you what, if she says anything tell her it was my idea.  I am on a mission and you are just helping me out.  lol actually maybe you could join my mission.  It will fix you right up and you wont have that cloud over your head.

I can at least understand him being concerned. As apparently many of the providers can too.

Its sad, that simply because the provider doesn't want that donation to go someone place other then in her wallet.  That she is gonna bad mouth a decent fellow. Yet, I am pretty certain. That we have all seen this happen to some hobbyist at some point and time.

The really sad aspect of this. Is like so many of you have already stated. It is naturally presumed that while you might have ATF!  If she is out of town touring. Or you simply can't get a hold of her when you have the free time to see her. She should be understanding of that fact.  However, there are a few well known providers. That, I have talked to on multiable occasions to set up dates. But, do to business reasons. Having to stay late or other similar issues. I was never ever able to finalize those dates. So no exact time was set up per say. Now, I can't even get a return e-mail.  No big deal. I have found other providers that were able to work with me.

Umm... You can always lay in my lap.