It is clear I am new to this scene.  I have never been with a provider before.  But I have decided there is someone I would like to spend some time with.  But she requires 2 references, and I of course have none.

Bit of a catch.  Everyone wants a reference before you can see them.  But to get a reference, you have to see somebody first.  I'm at a bit of a loss.

To the extent there is a catch of a client, perhaps I come close:  respectful, mature, professional, good looking, and looking for a regular meeting.  But I am having trouble getting my foot (among other things) through the door.  Any advice?

All of your reference questions can be answered on the Newbie board.

Welcome.  Yep, it's the old catch 22.  Here are a couple of suggestions:

1) call the provider you want to see and see if she will allow another form of screening, such as:
  -- I know a provider who would see you if you provided your work & home info, which she would call to verify (I personally did not choose that option as I'm big on discretion)
  --I've heard of another provider who would see you if you booked 2 hours, which you pay for up front.  The first hour is you meet at a public place and after meeting you, she may invite you back to her room.
 -- An agency I know would be ok if you set up a date check ID

2) Go see 2 other providers who screen but don't require reference.  There are some great ladies in that area and GFE4NC is a good agency.  Then write reviews to help establish yourself.

Of screening besides two references. References are nice but are not make it or break it for me. I like when gentlemen have references but am just fine with using other information for screening. If you contact a provider and references are mandatory just move on until you find a couple of ladies or an agency with whom you can build up a positive reference history and write reviews.

~Rae