When looking at an ad and some reviews on a provider, what makes you desire to take a lady on a nice dinner date/evening at a hotel? VS model type, etc. etc.  

New to this... I'd like to hear your thoughts guys.

I would only inquire about a dinner date after I had seen a provider and I felt like we truly clicked and felt totally comfortable with and she seemed like someone I would ask out in the real world.  I have only done this once which included an over night. By the way, I had a great evening and got to know her in a way I don't think I otherwise would have.

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fun if two can carry on an intelligent conversation, don’t you think?

I'd have to have met her before to plan something like that. If I wanted awkward conversation I'd just take my wife out to dinner!!!

I got a request for dinner and drinks and dancing with a gent from Raleigh (of all places I tour, I usually tend to believe Raleigh is the tamest).   Well, what he wanted was to dress in drag and go dancing with me.

SMH.

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I guess I've been taken on dates after knowing the fella', but that was more when they turned into little Sugar Daddies. They'd never admit it, but technically they were. It was tons of fun! I love going out, but I did go out of a date recently and it was super awkward as the dude wanted to loudly talk about the details in escorting. People were everywhere.

Perhaps I should hold the standard of meeting the guy first before dating. AWKWARD! Sometimes we have to babysit. That's hard.

Courtney

All out raw passion! Yeah that is the ticket!!!!!!!!!!!

Of course there has to be some chemistry so it might be better suited
for a second date.

Then again doesn't it really come down to what a fella is really wanting?
Do I want to pay extra for dinner? Hell Match.com then! Hickory Dickory Dock...........

Or do I want to get over to your place or have you come here, moment
you arrive start attacking each other like wabbits building to a furious,
panting, sweating, heavy breathing mutual explosion of orgasmic delight!!!!!

What the heck does that have to do with dinner? LOL

I mean if it is some kind of fantasy that it is really like an actual date? Well that is ok
too, whatever the Dude wants, right?

Or it could be a fella just wants to roll his sleeves back and have a nasty raunchy
roll in the hay with a woman greatly skilled and desires to fulfill his every fantasy.

Really there is nothing in a review that would cause me to want to add dinner to the
festivities. Or anything in an ad. Just a feeling I get when I look over the whole package.
I have rarely made a poor decision in the hobby. You do this awhile your picker becomes most excellent!

Now after initial meeting if there is CHEMISTRY and I wanna repeat as much as the piggy
bank will allow then WTF why not have some grub together? Lets eat then BANG owe can't wait to BANG so lets eat later! Whateva!

All depends on what the fella feels is going to fill that gaping hole of need of his, right? hehe
I mean don't it?

As far as advertising goes, simple is best in my opinion. Remember we are dealing with drawing in
knuckle dragging neanderthals. You know scratching, mouth-breathing, farting, burping, hairy, manly BEASTS!

Yeah we can pretend all we want, in the end we are just regular guys, pretty disgusting! LOL  Me knowing that is absolute proof to me I am not gay cause I cannot for the life of me see how in the heck women desire anything from men.  LOL

Anyway an ad, simpler the better.

Here is what I got: the most intense sexual adventure you have ever experienced.

Here is what it will do for you: make you forget there is anything on this earth but the intense burning passion between the two of us. You won't be right for days.

Here is what I need you to do next: call, email, carrier pigeon WHATEVER you have to do get in touch with and IF you pass my screening then MAYBE it will be on like DonkeyKong! Maybe!

Then again what do I know?

I Concur with everything I just wrote! My experience proves my theory!!!!!!!!

That is what I am talking about, turn around kiss myself!

Shifterp OUT!

've always loved dinner or lunch dates but have found that it is a different breed of man
that likes and enjoy these "fantasy encounters"  just as much as I do.    

Cheers,
Kar

Depends on what the fella is looking for I guess. I've had the privelage of taking a few ladies out to dinner after a date, but always OTC. Not looking for free extras just clicked well or had built a bit of a relationship. Figured if I was gonna grab some grub why go alone? I personally doubt I would pay for the time for dinner out but that's just me. Never have planned it either just a spur of the moment thing, " hey it's late ya wanna grab some dinner before heading home?" Kind of cool just to continue the conversation I've never expected them to stay in character during dinner. Just a couple friends grabbing dinner before parting ways. Pretty rare that I even ask but it can be pretty cool.  The looks you get from jealous dudes are awesome though!! Especially if their SO catches them staring!!!

Another level fun, flirting, romance, etc. I absolutely love them because it feels like a "real" date because it is! A date between lovers celebrating each other over great food, great conversation and the anticipation of things to come.

Personally I have a blast and a man can see another side of me over dinner. BUT I'm picky in who I have a dinner date with. It's worked out really well for me. Only ONCE since 2005 did I end up out with man for dinner that I regretted being in public with and that's a whole other story,lol!

And I'm not young enough and not tall enough to be considered a VS model type!

xoxo,

Steph

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know my partner beforehand.  As others have commented [ & case always cracks me up ! ], need to  know the lady before, as who needs awkward situations.

 I've have done it several times with special friends, and ALWAYS had the best of times, and now trying to plan another

Glad I could be there for ya dude!!! Nice to know someone appreciates my warped sense of humor, now I'm just waiting on you're embarrassing story for the thread above this one. LOL!!! I've got to get a few more responses before I embarrass my self publicly!!!!

Thank you ladies ! I agree, I'm very selective about who I see. Taking the time for dinner, a show or just an evening out makes the experience so much more enjoyable .

What? lol

Cute

I see a few reviews for women who go out on first dates On the clock, whether it be after meeting along, or before. I was curious how those happen, and if there is a certain type of gal who gets those first 3-4 hour dinner dates before even meeting the guy.

I would assume, in rare cases, email correspondence beforehand would intrigue someone enough to try having some drinks or dinner first.

I think it would be sexy to tease secretly during the date, just to make it a little more exciting when the two decide to head back to their little hiding place.

Love dates, miss them, but I don't go on Match anymore bc, well, I kept getting emails... "Hey, don't  I know you from somewhere?" Then try to get me in the sack. haha. I was just honest and said I wanted to go on some normal dates, but finally signed off because... well, apparently lots of ppl on dating sites are hobbyists, lol. (And there was at least one provider on there... hehehe...) and I don't want Match to think I'm trying to use them to advertise! ha! (I haven't, and never would, for the record).

I tend to have great conversations on my dates in the buiz, and it can be mentally stimulating. Mental stimulation, at least for me, is a HUGE turn on. I would hope that would be for a man too.

Thanks again guys and gals!

Done rambling..... now.

~Court