Anybody have any experience with this in the Carolinas?  I'm not just talking about a hand job, but a real lingam massage that incorporates tantric principles.  My favorite FBSM was getting into this, but she retired.

There are  and have been several providers who advertise tantric sessions in and around Asheville, and most have been either short-lived, a bit off-putting or somewhat awkward and amateurish in trying to integrate tantra with FS. Layla fks Luna  has been at it for well over a decade, does not vary the menu to include FS and gets consistently good reviews here and other sites. Her webiste below.

I do a Hot Tantric Session!

I do both Tantric and Nuru . . I do love Tantric with the erotic music that moves you and sensual oils and incorporate the full body to body experience