First off, don't ask for help behind an alias.  Only a fool would help you.  What I'm doing is not specificly helping YOU, but helping the masses know some of the "do's and don'ts".   Secondly, DO be as specific as possible.  The city of "Charlotte" and the month of "December" is a start, but you can and should provide A LOT more.  Your queery is about as bad as it gets.  I mean, what do you want recommendations of?  Restaurants?  Bars?  Strip Clubs?  Museums?  Providers?  You gotta be specific here, pal.  Just b/c this is a fucks for bucks site, doesn't mean every question that comes down the pike is related to that subject.  If we were to assume "providers", then there's still a lot of gray area.  Specifics such as age range, price range, ethnicity, body type, as well as services offered should be spelled out.  We're not mind readers, you know.  But more than anything, you should DO a little "Homework"!  Really, that's what this site is mostly for.  Have you done a search of the Charlotte area?  The area code is 704.  If you haven't got a clue, head over to the Newbie Board for a primer.  One thing you did do right, is that you didn't wait until the very last minute.  Nothing amazes me more than people who wait until the day of, to seek recommendations.  Good luck.