As some know I am very loud and a dirty talker... thats my release... do ya'll like it loud, soft panting,silent, what about the dirty talk??

To put it simply. I personally enjoy a bit of dirty talk.  It is one of those kinds of hit or miss subjects.  That is a major turning on point for some men.  While others simply enjoy hearing the heartfelt moans and groans. Knowing that you are hitting the right spot. The right way that is.

Its always a tell tell sign that not only is the guy doing things correctly. But that you seem to genuinely be enjoying his efforts.  I know that different woman. Have different orgasms. Some are quite vocal. While others are quite. Again, I am can only speak for myself in this regard. Although, I am sure other share this same sentiment.  No one really enjoys some loud as fake porn queen moment. I'm sure there are those who don't care. But, if your looking for repeat clients. I would think of it like anything that you listen to your clients breathing. Follow his lead to an extent. As men generally get closer to that special moment. While they are excreting themselves. You will have all the signs you need to get your proper ques.

Now blow jobs and while the lady is doing all the work. That isn't always so easy for you ladies to read your client. That is assuming you are trying to put on a convincing act. To make your hobbyist feel as though he is having a genuine experience.

The fact that the provider is able to remember my name or not. Is another issue all together. Its the attention to detail that makes or breaks a provider in my eyes.  As well as being a sincere GFE. That will make me cum back.

Definitely soft moaning and a little bit of dirty talk. I don't usually like if a woman yells or screams.

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I think you have seen the wild look in my eyes, my overall facial expression brough on by my mind racing out of control, the ragged breathing pattern that I get from our dance as the music reaches a crescendo, and the end draws near;P  This all in response to your talking to me in that throaty animalistic  loud growl  of yours^..^  Gonna get in that "cage" at the house again with you in the not too distant future for another dance;P Hope I don't get devoured---Whoa! What am I saying, anything to help feed a starving lil animal;P Meow!!!

Seriously though, since I'm a little hard of hearing, I like it on the louder side.  Not something that will bring security or the police, but enough so I think you are having a good time too.  If you happen to use my name it helps.

I'll bring them or we can make them as we go.

I believe it would depend on the fantasy.   I find each of the ladies are different (viva la differance).  

A. If the lady in playing the soft gentle sweet innocent woman with a naughty side then probably not so much.  

B. If she is playing the tease, nibble hear, nibble there,  and builds to a passionate apex then some where along the line some dirty talk may be apporopriate  

C. If she is more of a tigress or the vamp and its more PSE that GFE then words would start earlier an word get pretty dang wild.  

Personnally I like .....   D. All the above.

I dont not think all providers could pull of all 3 types but then others can.   And to go a little further a womans looks and what she is wearing upon the start of the date would lay out the initial mood.  

For instance, she us wearing a short black dress, thigh high dark stockings and 6 inch heels . I would be thinking seductress or maybe a good girl with a naughty streak.

If she is wearing a black bra and panties  with fishnets and a little more eye makeup I am thinking grrrr.

I guess what I am trying to say is ,what am I trying to say??  - oh it depends on the image projected.

I will keep this simple.

Yes, please.

Moaning..groaning...deeper...oh yes please...right there...etc..

Yelling and screaming?? nope not for me...I dont want the hotel or neighborhood to know our business!

Hmm, I guess it depends upon the girl and the current mood of the situation.  Sometimes I am looking for more of a personal connection, which leads to more of a soft, sensual, and quieter time.  In other situations, it may just be hammer time!  In which case it's great to be loud and dirty!

I like it HONEST!!!!!!!!!

First hint of passion being put on and stiff little curvy turns to a shrinking violet!!!!!!!  LOL

I really like honest dirty passionate commenting as things are being played out. Loud, quiet, nails coming out, whatever! Just build it up to the right point and let it go! Let the poison out Raven for all the Stern fans! LOL

What I really like more than anything when I can help make it happen is when I am with a woman
and crap we are all being honest here, right? Good number of guys and the better impression then
a repeat is likely. SO there can tend to be a put on a great show sometimes depending on the woman.

So that can lead to maybe mechanical going through the motions, still GREAT but just kind of a GREAT yawn and a woman is going through the motions and OOOPPPPSSSS! The kinda going through the motions then the moment when it turns and I have gotten their attention.

Their attitude kinda changes and they decide they really want to get um some. If this has happened for you fellas you know what I am talking about.

I will keep her name out of it but one of the most stunning gals I have been with things were just going along just fine. Then a moment happened and she kind of went from kinda mild to furiously
banging me till I thought she was going to push me through the bed. Best cg I ever had.

Guess I am saying when the choreography kinda goes out the window and the passion just takes over is the best. Then noises and dirty talk just kinda blurt out.

Yea, that is what I like the most. You can't fake that kinda shit!

Shifterp OUT!

for the life of me I can't remember why. I love it, loud or hushed, verbal or non-verbal. And if it isn't genuine, I'd rather have fake dirty talk than sincere quiet.

My incall has incredible soundproofing/insulation. Plus I can't remember the last time I was in a hotel...but I remember having to be concerned about that....I'm lucky to not have to entertain from a hotel...I think sometimes I might get loud.

HEAR HEAR Shift.  Makes ya wanna do it again.  I felt those words.

I'm conservative by nature, so a little extra talk is a nice change of pace.  I swear the cleaning crew was listening to my date and I today; we got loud a few times.

not much for the dirty talking, or screaming.  it just seems fake. lets face it we know we're not that good. panting, light moaning ....... now thats the ticket.

My private home..is my private home. Separate from this world. Plus I have children...NOW if I didnt have children...I would be very tempted to have an at home setup for regulars. Not for 13 more years!! *hangs head* loL!

In just a few days my youngest of four will be 19.   Love them and very proud to be their Mom. But I'm also happy to be able to do my thing!!
I've got 2 sweet girls at home that keep me grounded, a puggle and a lab
They need their momma, too!

I had my first child when I was 24...
I look in the mirror and I don't see 55. I hike the trail and I don't feel 55. It's just a number.

I think you can feel your partner out by their responses. If you say f*ck me hard and hes says yea baby lets rock, then you got a pattern. If no response, then go to the moan and groan. Personally I like to mix it up like a box of chocolate!!! Bring whip cream, a jar of cherries, a Groucho Marx mask and a can of silly string and you can never can go wrong!!!!!!!!!!!

I love a really responsive lady and dirty talk is awesome, but no matter how load, wild and dirty it is, it has to be genuine.  Fake loud and dirty is just that, fake.

Spinxnc,

You and I should get together.  I have lost my voice and have to communicate by writing on a white board or using hand signals.  I have found that hand signals work very well in the bedroom.

I once tried a form of flashcards.  Before the date I typed a paper telling my likes and dislikes, my favorite positions, the meaning of some of my hand signals, and that I liked my partner to talk dirty to me as I was "running for the goal line".   I typed it in large easy-to-read font and arranged it so, if need be, that I could quickly point at something to make a point.  I think it ruined the spontaneity of our bedroom activities.

I laugh because my provider, who in the next thread professes to like being talked dirty to, looked at me as she read it and said "what do you mean by talking dirty?"

I have to give my provider credit for another thing.  My voice deteriorated over a period of 22 months.  My compassionate provider could understand what I was saying long after my other friends and my SO gave up and I had to communicate with them by artificial means.

I want to say "Thank You" to my very compassionate and also very hot provider.

I do know sign language

Although I am vocal, Im not a screamer, but I do get loud if I am enjoying myself!  guess some of you will have to find out for yourself ...... until then....thanks for responses!!!